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<i>To Dean of Admissions,
Princeton University.</i>

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<i>The most influential person in my life...</i>

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<i>... is Mother Teresa, whose example
helped me overcome the arrogance...</i>

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<i>which threatened after my 1,600 SAT score
and National Merit Scholarship.</i>

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<i>My influential person taught me
the most important word I've learned.</i>

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<i>Aloha, which I...</i>

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<i>To the Dean of Admissions,
Princeton University...</i>

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<i>from Cristina Moreno.</i>

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<i>Most influential person: My mother.
No contest.</i>

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<i>I think I have been pointing
toward this essay...</i>

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<i>ever since the day, 12 years ago in Mexico,
when my father left.</i>

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<i>Such was my mother's need to protect me...</i>

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<i>that she would not let me see her cry.</i>

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<i>The trick was...</i>

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<i>get over it as quickly
and privately as possible.</i>

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<i>Such was my need to protect her...</i>

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<i>that I never let on that I could hear her.</i>

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<i>My mother kept us in Mexico
as long as possible...</i>

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<i>to root me in all things Latin.</i>

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<i>Finally, she sensed
our last opportunity for change.</i>

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<i>We would leave for America.</i>

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<i>"One tear."</i>

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<i>"Just one."</i>

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<i>"So make it a good one," she said.</i>

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<i>She would be my Mexico.</i>

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<i>Because this admissions essay
is open record...</i>

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<i>let me just say that our transportation
into the United States was...</i>

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<i>economy class.</i>

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<i>In order to raise me properly...</i>

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<i>my mother needed as much of the security
of her own culture as possible.</i>

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<i>So we rolled through Texas...</i>

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<i>just 34% Hispanic...</i>

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<i>to Los Angeles...</i>

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<i>48% Hispanic.</i>

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...look at the Detroit Pistons.

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And your mother's saying, "Get up!"
But, no, what of it?

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You can't see them. Why?
'Cause you're being killed...

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you're being strangled
by the psychotic Raider fans.

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What do you have in Oakland?
You got a bunch of psychotic...

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<i>A few minutes adrift
in an alien environment...</i>

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<i>then we turned a corner,
and we were right back home.</i>

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<i>My mother's favorite cousin,
Monica, gave us shelter.</i>

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<i>For the next six years...</i>

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<i>neither of us ventured outside
our new community.</i>

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<i>Mom worked two jobs,
paying a total of $450 a week...</i>

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<i>each of us doing everything we could
to make things work.</i>

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<i>We were safe and happy.</i>

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<i>If only I could have stayed six.</i>

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<i>But I was blossoming.</i>

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<i>And during my very first dance...</i>

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<i>in the time it took a boy's hand...</i>

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<i>to go from my back to my bottom...</i>

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<i>it was evident that
she would have to leave her night job...</i>

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<i>to keep a watchful eye on me.</i>

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<i>Within days, she was
on her way to a job interview.</i>

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<i>She needed $450 from one job.</i>

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<i>And that meant,
after all her time in America...</i>

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<i>finally entering a foreign land.</i>

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<i>Hello?</i>

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Yeah, hi. We're here for
the interview with Mrs. Clasky?

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<i>Oh, great. You made it.</i>

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<i>Come on in. The front door's open
and we're out back. Okay?</i>

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<i>And call me Deborah.</i>

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<i>Holding out had helped though.</i>

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<i>She was no longer intimidated.</i>

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<i>Working for Anglos
now posed no problems.</i>

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<i>It would just be a job.</i>

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<i>White America beckoned.</i>

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<i>She stepped across the cultural divide.</i>

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Gee whiz in heaven, are you okay?

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No. Don't worry, I'm not mad.

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I've been looking for decoration to put up
on the glass so people wouldn't walk into it.

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Instead of taking what was in stock,
which was awful, I special ordered...

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but I'll design something myself,
which I should've done...

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What does that matter
when your nose is bleeding?

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- Shut up, Deborah.
- Now you got it, Mom.

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- There's no ice pack, Bern!
- So get anything frozen.

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Pressure! Just pressure!

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Take this.

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Is it strange that I just gave you money?
I just felt really badly.

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It's okay.

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Chum, knock it off!

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I'm sorry about the way the place looks.

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I'm hosting a fundraiser
for the school tonight.

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It's just a mess. Come sit right here.

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Here you go.

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Yeah, just... That's great.

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Just toss it.

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She's my cousin.

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She's been here for a while and
she understands some, but doesn't really...

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speak English, but, anyway...

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She lives in the apartment I manage and...

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- So who am I interviewing?
- Her.

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You're gorgeous.

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She didn't mean it as a compliment.
It's more of an accusation.

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- Mother!
- Go ahead.

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I'm sorry. This is my daughter, Bernie...

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- and my mother, Evelyn Wright.
- Evelyn.

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- Do you want to come in out of the sun?
- No, we're fine.

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You need some sunscreen? I got a 70 here.

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She loves the sun.

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Look, we're wearing the same sweater.
That's good booga-booga.

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You want some lemonade, maybe?

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Lemonade, please?
Would you like to take some? Both of you?

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Okay, let's just talk.

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I have two children. My husband is
a top chef. Like that makes me something.

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- Anyway, he works nights, so...
- Do you work?

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Yes. No. Not right now. Why?
How do you know to ask that?

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It's okay. I can talk about it. I just...

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I ran a commercial design company
until four months ago...

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when it was downsized to zip.

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- Now I'm a full-time mom. Gulp!
- Double gulp.

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I have two children.
My son Georgie is nine, Bernie you know...

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and I like the house to be like me,
you know...

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I'm very loose and meticulous
at the same time.

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It's all about first names
and closeness here.

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Let her know, absolutely.
But I do care about the place.

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I'm so sorry,
I'm not leaving you time to translate.

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What's your name?

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<i>Llamo. It's one of my five Spanish words.</i>

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Flor Moreno.

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Floor?

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Flor.

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- Floor?
- No, Flor.

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Floor.

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Flor.

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- It means "flower," right?
- Flower, yes.

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- Floor! What I walk on, right?
- Flor.

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- Flor.
- Flor!

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Is there some school of the ear
I'm flunking out off right now?

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What'd she say?

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She says if you curl your tongue,
then let it be loose, you'll get it...

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and that it's really hard for Americans...

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and that it's great you try so hard.
Because most people wouldn't bother.

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She gets me.

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Flor.

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Dense, but stubborn, right?

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Now, see what you just did for me?
That is just what the kids need.

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Patience and encouragement.

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All right, money.

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- Goodbye. Look forward to seeing you.
- Love you.

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The job is six days a week.
Seven, eight, 12 hours, it depends.

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All the housekeeping, driving the kids.

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How much a week do you want?

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- Whatever you say.
- No!

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No. This is a very important question...

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because if you ask for too little,
it means you don't value yourself.

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You ask for too much,
it means you're taking advantage. So?

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$1,000.

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She's kidding!

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$650!

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Welcome to the family.

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Come on. I want to show you around.

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Come on!

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<i>I had never known that my mother
had been chronically worried about money...</i>

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<i>until the first glimpse of her
as financially unburdened.</i>

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Can we have a table for two, please?

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- We're celebrating.
- Okay, right this way.

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Is this good?

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<i>- Gracias.
- You're welcome.</i>

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Here you go.

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Enjoy.

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<i>- Gracias.
- You're welcome.</i>

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Whoa, expensive.

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Excuse me.

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Those men would like to buy you a drink.

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Thank you.

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<i>- No, gracias.
- Okay.</i>

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Sorry.

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This is so embarrassing.

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My mother said to tell them,
"Who do you think you are?

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"Can't you see I'm with my daughter,
for God's sake?"

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Good.

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She said, "Who do you think you are?"

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She's with her daughter, for God's sake.
Her young daughter.

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Passing on the left!

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Left!

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Morning, Flor. See you up there.

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Hey! Will you try this?

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Isn't that good?

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Okay, think seriously about getting up.

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You don't have to get up yet,
but are you thinking seriously about it?

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- Yes.
- Okay.

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My God. This is amazing!

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A simple "it's good" will do.

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I'm glad you like it.

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But you could do without this.

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No!

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Flor, never do fetch to Chum! Never!

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I'm not mad. I'm thinking of you.

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This is me being nice.

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Okay. It's just...

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no taking the ball from the dog.
Just don't. No fetch.

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No. Never do fetch with this dog.
Okay? Never.

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Here, can you make us
some coffee, maybe? Yeah?

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Okay. Right. Thank you.

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- Now?
- Yes, actual up.

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Hey, Dad!

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Are you as mad at me as Mom
'cause of what happened?

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No, Georgie, I'm not.

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Are you mad at me?

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- No.
- Good.

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Let's hope.

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When it comes to the kids, John,
we got to stay on the same page!

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United. Doing consistent parenting.

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Do you know how many books
on parenting I've read?

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Deb, since high school we've been able
to read each other. Take advantage of it.

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Word for word, what did you say
to Georgie exactly?

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"No, I'm not mad."

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Good guy...

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bad guy.

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Come on.

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What the hell are you doing?
Everything's okay.

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- John.
- Yes.

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Do you really think that cupping my breast...

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- is going to solve the issue here?
- It's worked before.

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Now it's infuriating me.

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- Wrong breast.
- Oh, my God!

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No, I know what you mean.

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Oh, my God. Don't do the calm thing.
Just don't go there. Don't do that thing.

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This is very important to you. Us.

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I just like to level with Georgie.
That's why I answered him this way.

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This is not an argument, honey.

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Yes, it is!

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We're having a fight, John.
A big fight, at last.

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So could you stop
being so stark raving calm?

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Great God in heaven, save me.

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Hi.

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I didn't know Deb found somebody.
You work here?

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You're gonna help out
with the house and kids?

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You work here
and you don't speak any English at all?

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All she has to do is dial 911
and press two for Spanish.

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This is...

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Flor, this is Georgie and this is John.
John, this is Flor.

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Flor.

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Great. I'll take Georgie to school.

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No, I'm doing it.
I'm gonna show Flor the ropes.

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Flor, will you come with me, please?

239
00:18:28,515 --> 00:18:30,555
Come. Thank you.

240
00:18:32,291 --> 00:18:35,607
- She's mad.
- You're fine. Deb?

241
00:18:35,971 --> 00:18:37,694
- What?
- You love me.

242
00:18:57,253 --> 00:19:01,246
- Not the best place to stand, fella.
- No, it's me. I'm bugged.

243
00:19:01,316 --> 00:19:02,910
I'm sorry.

244
00:19:02,981 --> 00:19:05,217
Not a problem.
You're the new helper, Alex, right?

245
00:19:05,285 --> 00:19:07,391
Okay, welcome. First day.

246
00:19:07,462 --> 00:19:10,462
John, I have something very important
to tell you.

247
00:19:17,927 --> 00:19:20,131
- Damn.
- What?

248
00:19:20,199 --> 00:19:24,454
Victor recognized a food critic
over the phone.

249
00:19:24,871 --> 00:19:27,172
<i>- From?
- The Times.</i>

250
00:19:27,239 --> 00:19:30,501
I'll bet they sent her
across the country just for us.

251
00:19:32,135 --> 00:19:35,484
- Lf you're nervous, take a walk.
- I don't need a walk.

252
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,015
I'll walk with you. I know a breathing thing.

253
00:19:38,088 --> 00:19:40,674
What do you think I'm worried about?
How I'm gonna cook?

254
00:19:40,744 --> 00:19:43,297
That's not the thing. That's not the problem.

255
00:19:44,488 --> 00:19:48,198
I worked at a restaurant in New York
that had four stars.

256
00:19:48,873 --> 00:19:51,840
It was like a line formed
to become an asshole.

257
00:19:52,617 --> 00:19:54,886
People's accents changed.

258
00:19:56,393 --> 00:19:59,110
The heart went out of the place.
You understand?

259
00:20:00,042 --> 00:20:02,791
- No.
- I agree with everything you just said.

260
00:20:02,858 --> 00:20:07,135
I admire you for your feelings.
I hope to adopt them as my own.

261
00:20:15,755 --> 00:20:17,129
Here we are, ladies.

262
00:20:18,539 --> 00:20:20,361
I don't know what to root for.

263
00:20:20,971 --> 00:20:23,525
The thought of one star gets me nauseous...

264
00:20:23,596 --> 00:20:27,906
but with four, there's no place to go but,
"My God, they took away one of my stars!"

265
00:20:28,173 --> 00:20:31,304
<i>- The Times liked the first course.
- You know what you want?</i>

266
00:20:32,717 --> 00:20:36,711
Three and a quarter stars.
Yes, that would be perfect.

267
00:20:36,781 --> 00:20:39,847
It'd mean you're good,
but not good enough to feel disappointed...

268
00:20:39,917 --> 00:20:41,805
you just missed out on excellence.

269
00:20:41,869 --> 00:20:44,716
You still get enough respect.
Good people wanna work with you.

270
00:20:44,782 --> 00:20:46,375
Business is good, not crazy.

271
00:20:46,446 --> 00:20:50,058
You're right below the radar,
where you get to mind your own business.

272
00:20:51,598 --> 00:20:53,573
That's a good, solid life.

273
00:20:55,151 --> 00:20:56,395
Big wipe.

274
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,950
I'm in the vitamin section
and this little hip-hop girl, what's her name?

275
00:21:13,072 --> 00:21:15,920
Nice surprise, thank you. You want some?

276
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,742
This little hip-hop girl, what's her name?
Grammys.

277
00:21:22,865 --> 00:21:26,247
She's famous. You kids know her. Oh, darn.

278
00:21:28,305 --> 00:21:32,429
God bless the language barrier.
It keeps you from being bored with me.

279
00:21:33,906 --> 00:21:35,881
Anyway, she said:

280
00:21:36,690 --> 00:21:40,553
- "Aren't you Evelyn Wright?"
- Oh, my God!

281
00:21:40,626 --> 00:21:43,693
First of all, that she remembered me
from the old covers.

282
00:21:43,763 --> 00:21:46,185
- Yeah.
- And then she...

283
00:21:47,443 --> 00:21:50,672
- Oh, please. Her name.
- Stop it.

284
00:21:51,635 --> 00:21:54,952
- It makes the story so much better.
- It's still a good story.

285
00:21:56,788 --> 00:21:58,032
She said:

286
00:21:59,924 --> 00:22:02,379
"Whenever I think everything's"...

287
00:22:03,124 --> 00:22:07,401
Pardon my French, pardon her French.
"A mother-hm-hm...

288
00:22:09,013 --> 00:22:11,184
"I put on one of your records."

289
00:22:12,885 --> 00:22:14,346
Oh, my God.

290
00:22:14,421 --> 00:22:16,494
That is so sweet.

291
00:22:16,885 --> 00:22:20,660
Well, you think your life is embarrassing,
and then...

292
00:22:21,206 --> 00:22:24,468
somebody finds encouragement in it.

293
00:22:25,238 --> 00:22:27,627
- You understand?
- I think I do.

294
00:22:31,830 --> 00:22:34,197
Mom, it's not even noon.

295
00:22:39,223 --> 00:22:42,125
- This is going to work.
- I don't know anything.

296
00:22:42,199 --> 00:22:43,890
Free your mind.

297
00:22:43,959 --> 00:22:46,643
"The president whose policies...

298
00:22:46,712 --> 00:22:50,007
"many consider responsible
for the Great Depression."

299
00:22:50,072 --> 00:22:51,348
I don't know.

300
00:22:51,416 --> 00:22:53,555
- Name a vacuum cleaner.
- What?

301
00:22:56,057 --> 00:22:57,999
- Okay, I got it.
- Hoover.

302
00:22:58,073 --> 00:23:00,494
- I said I had it. You don't trust me?
- Okay.

303
00:23:00,569 --> 00:23:02,358
I no longer know nothing.

304
00:23:02,425 --> 00:23:05,557
And Hoover was followed in office by...

305
00:23:06,426 --> 00:23:10,354
I'm just drawing blanks. I'm embarrassed.
It's my own fault.

306
00:23:10,426 --> 00:23:13,874
I spent all my time on math,
which I'm lucky if I don't flunk, anyway.

307
00:23:13,946 --> 00:23:15,223
Stop it.

308
00:23:16,410 --> 00:23:18,832
The man you're looking for is not a ruse.

309
00:23:18,907 --> 00:23:20,979
- What does "ruse" mean?
- Phony.

310
00:23:24,122 --> 00:23:25,911
Roosevelt!

311
00:23:26,523 --> 00:23:29,752
If I'd ever heard of that word before,
that would lock it in.

312
00:23:31,932 --> 00:23:34,321
- Surprise! New clothes.
- What?

313
00:23:36,764 --> 00:23:39,764
- What did I do right?
- It was a warehouse sale.

314
00:23:43,709 --> 00:23:46,360
I went nuts. I got so much stuff.

315
00:23:46,429 --> 00:23:48,731
Great! She needed a boost.

316
00:23:56,029 --> 00:23:59,575
That came together.
I wouldn't wear it together, it's a little much.

317
00:24:09,439 --> 00:24:10,649
Eight?

318
00:24:12,478 --> 00:24:13,591
What?

319
00:24:17,215 --> 00:24:20,282
- Eight.
- What?

320
00:24:22,976 --> 00:24:25,464
- Bernie, come on. Listen.
- What's going on?

321
00:24:25,536 --> 00:24:28,602
You're gonna do it,
and you're gonna look beautiful.

322
00:24:29,408 --> 00:24:33,270
Honey, I just...
You are going to lose that weight, and...

323
00:24:55,715 --> 00:24:57,056
You know...

324
00:24:57,955 --> 00:25:00,737
I'm glad you didn't get here earlier,
because...

325
00:25:01,539 --> 00:25:03,928
then I wouldn't be able to tell you that...

326
00:25:04,963 --> 00:25:07,233
your gift to me...

327
00:25:07,971 --> 00:25:09,248
is a ruse.

328
00:25:11,108 --> 00:25:14,686
- Honey, I...
- Please, just excuse me.

329
00:25:15,460 --> 00:25:17,315
- Hey, Bernie...
- I just...

330
00:25:18,117 --> 00:25:21,729
I just need to be alone right now, okay?
I'm sorry. It's okay.

331
00:25:26,085 --> 00:25:29,282
We have to be able to endure this, John,
if we're gonna help her.

332
00:25:29,349 --> 00:25:31,967
I'll just gonna hang out here
and wait for you, okay?

333
00:25:32,037 --> 00:25:35,715
Her pediatrician intervened on
his own daughter's weight, and she is an 8.

334
00:25:35,782 --> 00:25:38,368
Dad, don't.
Didn't you ever just need a minute?

335
00:25:39,142 --> 00:25:40,254
Yes.

336
00:25:40,326 --> 00:25:42,595
This is the same page
that I'm talking about, John.

337
00:25:42,663 --> 00:25:45,729
We gotta be on the same page.
That's the most important thing.

338
00:25:45,799 --> 00:25:47,872
I don't know why it has to be so hard.

339
00:25:47,943 --> 00:25:49,404
I need a minute.

340
00:25:56,679 --> 00:26:00,192
She's right between the two sizes.
I thought about it.

341
00:26:00,263 --> 00:26:03,744
What am I supposed to do?
Encourage her denial...

342
00:26:03,816 --> 00:26:07,329
or motivate her to get herself in shape?
Flor?

343
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:10,433
Me go.

344
00:26:11,817 --> 00:26:14,370
- Okay.
- I'll take you to the bus stop.

345
00:26:22,122 --> 00:26:24,194
Sorry, I didn't even help you with the door.

346
00:26:24,265 --> 00:26:26,240
No, what I meant was...

347
00:26:26,794 --> 00:26:29,477
<i>My mother did not understand
her male boss.</i>

348
00:26:29,674 --> 00:26:33,569
<i>He seemed as upset as she was
over what had been done to Bernice...</i>

349
00:26:33,643 --> 00:26:35,585
Shit!

350
00:26:35,659 --> 00:26:37,415
<i>... and yet had done nothing.</i>

351
00:26:43,148 --> 00:26:46,443
I am running out of excuses
for the lady of the house!

352
00:26:48,908 --> 00:26:52,651
But, man, Bernice's final is tomorrow.
She didn't need this one.

353
00:26:52,716 --> 00:26:55,563
And just the look on her face
when she got the gifts!

354
00:26:55,629 --> 00:26:57,352
Like for one second she thought...

355
00:26:57,420 --> 00:27:00,138
all her problems with her mother
had been solved!

356
00:27:01,100 --> 00:27:03,621
<i>He appeared to be a good man...</i>

357
00:27:03,693 --> 00:27:07,141
<i>but to someone with first-hand knowledge
of Latin macho...</i>

358
00:27:08,014 --> 00:27:11,527
<i>he seemed to have
the emotions of a Mexican woman.</i>

359
00:27:17,519 --> 00:27:21,676
<i>She had no idea of how to react,
except to flee.</i>

360
00:27:27,791 --> 00:27:29,930
What're you doing? We're still moving.

361
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,553
I'll take you all the way to the bus stop.

362
00:27:34,959 --> 00:27:37,643
You got to let me take you all the way.

363
00:27:38,384 --> 00:27:40,173
I'll take you.

364
00:27:49,393 --> 00:27:50,800
All the way.

365
00:27:52,882 --> 00:27:54,769
How weird was this ride?

366
00:27:56,433 --> 00:27:58,288
Sorry. I'm sorry.

367
00:28:00,914 --> 00:28:03,303
Yes, you are released. Yes.

368
00:28:05,523 --> 00:28:06,930
Bye-bye.

369
00:28:30,868 --> 00:28:33,683
<i>A simple request from my mother
startled me.</i>

370
00:28:34,165 --> 00:28:35,856
<i>Her rules were bending.</i>

371
00:28:35,925 --> 00:28:39,951
<i>She was losing her battle
to remain uninvolved with the Claskys.</i>

372
00:28:48,150 --> 00:28:49,524
"Try it on."

373
00:28:56,310 --> 00:28:57,390
Try...

374
00:29:11,736 --> 00:29:14,583
Just. "Just try it on."

375
00:29:18,008 --> 00:29:19,535
Just try on.

376
00:29:20,505 --> 00:29:21,781
Just.

377
00:29:24,825 --> 00:29:26,101
Just.

378
00:29:38,906 --> 00:29:41,208
<i>There is one particular cultural difference...</i>

379
00:29:41,275 --> 00:29:44,374
<i>which I wish to explore academically
at Princeton.</i>

380
00:29:45,690 --> 00:29:47,796
<i>American women, I believe...</i>

381
00:29:47,867 --> 00:29:51,413
<i>actually feel the same as Hispanic women
about weight.</i>

382
00:29:51,675 --> 00:29:54,131
<i>A desire for the comfort of fullness.</i>

383
00:29:54,843 --> 00:29:58,291
<i>And when that desire
is suppressed for style...</i>

384
00:29:58,363 --> 00:30:00,982
<i>and deprivation allowed to rule...</i>

385
00:30:01,052 --> 00:30:03,288
<i>dieting, exercising American women...</i>

386
00:30:03,357 --> 00:30:04,218
Left!

387
00:30:04,284 --> 00:30:07,797
<i>... become afraid of everything
associated with being curvaceous...</i>

388
00:30:08,380 --> 00:30:11,228
<i>such as wantonness, lustfulness...</i>

389
00:30:11,293 --> 00:30:12,242
Left!

390
00:30:12,317 --> 00:30:15,765
<i>... sex, food...</i>

391
00:30:16,157 --> 00:30:17,499
<i>motherhood.</i>

392
00:30:18,302 --> 00:30:20,211
<i>All that is best in life.</i>

393
00:30:43,487 --> 00:30:44,436
Wow!

394
00:30:48,512 --> 00:30:50,301
Taste, she has.

395
00:30:51,361 --> 00:30:52,855
Just try it on.

396
00:30:55,776 --> 00:30:58,198
When did you learn to speak English?

397
00:31:00,737 --> 00:31:02,297
Just try it on.

398
00:31:03,649 --> 00:31:05,820
It's too tight. It doesn't fit.

399
00:31:08,353 --> 00:31:11,452
Bernice, just try it on.

400
00:31:12,066 --> 00:31:14,554
It's too small. I'm too big.

401
00:31:14,626 --> 00:31:17,179
- Just try it on!
- Okay.

402
00:31:17,827 --> 00:31:19,256
I'll show you.

403
00:31:23,427 --> 00:31:24,572
Thanks.

404
00:31:28,323 --> 00:31:30,331
Lovely way to start the day.

405
00:31:30,403 --> 00:31:34,146
The world's most trim Mexican
learns her first sentence...

406
00:31:34,756 --> 00:31:38,073
and uses it to watch me grunt my way...

407
00:31:39,108 --> 00:31:40,319
into a...

408
00:31:52,837 --> 00:31:55,936
- It fits!
- Okay.

409
00:32:11,911 --> 00:32:12,860
No.

410
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:31,905
Thanks.

411
00:33:06,539 --> 00:33:09,835
<i>Whatever happened to Frère Jacques
or Itsy-Bitsy Spider?</i>

412
00:33:09,900 --> 00:33:11,526
- Make room.
- I know.

413
00:33:11,596 --> 00:33:15,141
But every time he has a nightmare,
I teach him one of my old songs.

414
00:33:15,212 --> 00:33:17,930
That way, his nightmares have a purpose.

415
00:33:18,732 --> 00:33:21,154
But I don't have to sing it for anyone.

416
00:33:21,229 --> 00:33:23,269
Right, you're clear on that.

417
00:33:24,749 --> 00:33:27,237
How many did you sell of this song,
Grandma?

418
00:33:27,309 --> 00:33:29,316
He likes to know that stuff.

419
00:33:29,389 --> 00:33:30,796
She was huge.

420
00:33:32,205 --> 00:33:33,482
Here goes.

421
00:33:36,174 --> 00:33:39,557
76,000, which is great for a jazz album.

422
00:34:20,306 --> 00:34:21,419
Jesus.

423
00:34:33,235 --> 00:34:34,445
Fuck you.

424
00:34:39,123 --> 00:34:40,203
Dad!

425
00:34:40,275 --> 00:34:42,414
For Christ's sake, why are you screaming?

426
00:34:42,484 --> 00:34:45,550
Why, crazy father,
why aren't you screaming?

427
00:34:47,764 --> 00:34:51,026
I'm working on it.
The stunned thing has to get dealt with.

428
00:34:53,397 --> 00:34:54,641
"John Clasky..."

429
00:34:54,709 --> 00:34:56,203
- No.
- Yes.

430
00:34:58,133 --> 00:35:01,002
"John Clasky, who, at 25...

431
00:35:01,077 --> 00:35:03,466
"made his mark
on the New York restaurant scene...

432
00:35:03,541 --> 00:35:07,665
"has re-emerged
as a young and confident veteran...

433
00:35:08,246 --> 00:35:10,068
"taking chances with his combinations..."

434
00:35:10,133 --> 00:35:11,922
- Dad.
- Your sister's talking.

435
00:35:14,774 --> 00:35:17,360
"...beginning with a succession
of appetizers...

436
00:35:17,430 --> 00:35:20,049
"is constantly yet casually daring."

437
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,890
Dad, this is so great.

438
00:35:24,631 --> 00:35:26,158
Oh, my God.

439
00:35:27,223 --> 00:35:28,532
I think, here it is.

440
00:35:31,544 --> 00:35:35,952
"Eating at this perfect, smaller,
passionate restaurant...

441
00:35:36,632 --> 00:35:39,414
"inspires one's own abandonment
of caution.

442
00:35:40,632 --> 00:35:41,810
"To wit...

443
00:35:45,049 --> 00:35:48,181
"John Clasky is the best chef
in the United States."

444
00:35:50,873 --> 00:35:53,873
- Look how great you read it.
- Perfect, Dad.

445
00:35:57,146 --> 00:36:00,080
John, four stars. Oh, my God.

446
00:36:00,922 --> 00:36:02,744
You even look different to me.

447
00:36:03,674 --> 00:36:05,497
I wonder what Mom will do?

448
00:36:06,042 --> 00:36:07,865
I read it!

449
00:36:18,971 --> 00:36:22,550
All right. What is this?

450
00:36:22,908 --> 00:36:24,402
I don't know.

451
00:36:24,476 --> 00:36:27,672
I'm just so happy for you
and all your hard work.

452
00:36:30,844 --> 00:36:32,371
Oh, my goodness.

453
00:36:38,077 --> 00:36:39,539
All right.

454
00:36:40,670 --> 00:36:42,971
Don't worry. I'll wait for you.

455
00:36:47,806 --> 00:36:49,083
Nice move.

456
00:36:50,335 --> 00:36:53,368
We are so smooth. Right on.

457
00:36:54,111 --> 00:36:57,723
Ladies and gentlemen,
the mother of two children! Look at that.

458
00:37:01,343 --> 00:37:02,870
You look good.

459
00:37:03,743 --> 00:37:06,231
You're too beautiful. It's ridiculous.

460
00:37:06,944 --> 00:37:10,654
- I like you.
- Okay, I love you.

461
00:37:11,103 --> 00:37:12,697
Go.

462
00:37:16,961 --> 00:37:18,783
You don't even need me, do you?

463
00:37:21,281 --> 00:37:24,063
Just go. Now she's on.

464
00:37:24,353 --> 00:37:25,760
It's all you!

465
00:37:54,467 --> 00:37:55,929
No.

466
00:37:58,212 --> 00:38:00,797
Don't get sad. You had fun, I swear.

467
00:38:01,636 --> 00:38:03,610
Deb, cheer up!

468
00:38:05,957 --> 00:38:08,062
What am I going to do about me?

469
00:38:11,333 --> 00:38:13,341
No, not yet!

470
00:38:16,805 --> 00:38:18,082
Great sex.

471
00:38:43,208 --> 00:38:44,582
It's John Clasky.

472
00:38:49,192 --> 00:38:50,883
"I read your good review."

473
00:38:52,905 --> 00:38:54,727
I read your good review.

474
00:38:56,105 --> 00:38:58,244
They read me your good review.

475
00:39:01,129 --> 00:39:03,496
- Nice.
- Not so far.

476
00:39:07,370 --> 00:39:09,345
I'm sorry. How are you doing?

477
00:39:15,018 --> 00:39:16,644
I do fine.

478
00:39:23,659 --> 00:39:24,935
Be happy.

479
00:39:26,155 --> 00:39:27,366
Be happy.

480
00:39:29,452 --> 00:39:31,274
Yeah. Absolutely.

481
00:39:41,677 --> 00:39:43,913
Congratulations. Good job.

482
00:39:43,981 --> 00:39:46,501
- I need to talk to you.
- Oh, man. Okay.

483
00:39:47,501 --> 00:39:50,468
- You deserved it.
- You were terrific.

484
00:39:50,926 --> 00:39:54,668
Congratulations. You guys worked hard.
Way to go.

485
00:39:59,150 --> 00:40:02,249
- Pietro, what's wrong?
- I got a fantastic offer for my own place.

486
00:40:03,374 --> 00:40:06,244
Everyone wants to back me
since the paper came out.

487
00:40:09,295 --> 00:40:12,142
I can't lose you
and keep the hours I'm keeping.

488
00:40:12,655 --> 00:40:16,714
I can't do my life unless I hold onto you.

489
00:40:20,368 --> 00:40:23,684
I think I just gave you
an incredible bargaining position.

490
00:40:23,856 --> 00:40:26,824
So you gave away 20% of the restaurant...

491
00:40:28,432 --> 00:40:30,407
without even talking to me about it?

492
00:40:30,481 --> 00:40:33,350
I had to, right then,
or I would have lost him.

493
00:40:33,425 --> 00:40:36,273
Then I wouldn't have enough time
with the family.

494
00:40:44,594 --> 00:40:47,496
- I don't exist.
- Sure you do.

495
00:40:50,770 --> 00:40:54,415
I was all worried, just trying to
figure out the timing to talk to you...

496
00:40:54,483 --> 00:40:57,101
about renting a place for the summer.

497
00:40:57,171 --> 00:40:58,960
I think you have your timing.

498
00:41:01,299 --> 00:41:04,114
- Mom, the realtor's here. You coming?
- Go on.

499
00:41:04,179 --> 00:41:06,002
All right, I'll be back later.

500
00:41:14,068 --> 00:41:15,694
- Hi.
- Hi there.

501
00:41:18,868 --> 00:41:20,592
- I'm Mike.
- Deborah. Hi.

502
00:41:20,661 --> 00:41:24,655
There's a great rental that just came
on the market, so we're starting at the top.

503
00:41:24,725 --> 00:41:25,837
- Okay.
- Good.

504
00:41:38,582 --> 00:41:42,030
I'm never gonna be one of those girls
whose hair...

505
00:41:43,670 --> 00:41:46,354
flows perfectly in a convertible.

506
00:41:47,223 --> 00:41:49,045
Move your seat forward.

507
00:41:49,687 --> 00:41:50,635
I just...

508
00:41:51,223 --> 00:41:53,493
A little more. Good.

509
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,146
You must be trouble.

510
00:42:15,865 --> 00:42:17,272
Look at this.

511
00:42:20,057 --> 00:42:21,651
Isn't it gorgeous?

512
00:42:25,562 --> 00:42:29,174
It's beautiful. It's fabulous. Perfect.

513
00:42:29,818 --> 00:42:32,208
What word is the same in Spanish?

514
00:42:33,946 --> 00:42:35,223
Thank you.

515
00:42:36,539 --> 00:42:38,743
So, this will be your room, okay?

516
00:42:39,451 --> 00:42:42,615
Don't worry.
I'm gonna put lots of nice stuff in here, too.

517
00:42:44,572 --> 00:42:46,776
Did you ask her if she could live in?

518
00:42:47,708 --> 00:42:50,708
Come on.
There are no buses from her to here.

519
00:42:50,780 --> 00:42:53,202
There's no question. Double come on.

520
00:42:53,564 --> 00:42:55,474
The barrio, Carbon Beach.

521
00:42:57,469 --> 00:42:59,356
What to do?

522
00:42:59,549 --> 00:43:02,266
Come on, it's going to be so great.

523
00:43:02,334 --> 00:43:05,498
I'm gonna get someone
to explain everything to you. Come on.

524
00:43:08,670 --> 00:43:11,485
You must learn English.
Why won't she learn English?

525
00:43:11,550 --> 00:43:12,794
Be careful.

526
00:43:14,111 --> 00:43:17,624
I'm gonna have to learn
"you must learn English" in Spanish.

527
00:43:18,207 --> 00:43:19,484
Excuse me.

528
00:43:22,815 --> 00:43:26,230
- Excuse me, do you speak English?
- Yes, I do.

529
00:43:26,303 --> 00:43:29,598
Would you please help me?
Will you translate for me with her?

530
00:43:31,232 --> 00:43:32,279
Sure.

531
00:43:33,088 --> 00:43:34,681
Sure. Forever.

532
00:43:35,232 --> 00:43:36,607
He's gonna...

533
00:43:37,312 --> 00:43:38,806
Give me a minute.

534
00:43:40,192 --> 00:43:42,014
Okay. Hi.

535
00:43:42,176 --> 00:43:44,119
I've rented a house for the summer...

536
00:43:44,192 --> 00:43:47,673
and she needs to sleep at the house
because of the bus schedule.

537
00:43:55,426 --> 00:43:56,670
No, sorry.

538
00:43:56,738 --> 00:43:58,199
What? Why?

539
00:44:01,314 --> 00:44:03,681
She can't, because her daughter.

540
00:44:05,314 --> 00:44:07,038
You have a daughter?

541
00:44:07,715 --> 00:44:10,333
A whole daughter you've never mentioned?

542
00:44:10,755 --> 00:44:13,406
This is a little crazy that I don't know this.

543
00:44:14,115 --> 00:44:15,970
No, don't translate asides.

544
00:44:23,716 --> 00:44:25,626
She said she can't live here.

545
00:44:26,244 --> 00:44:28,383
- Because her daughter...
- I got that.

546
00:44:35,269 --> 00:44:38,618
Her daughter can also live here
for the summer. Go, tell her that.

547
00:44:38,694 --> 00:44:41,182
Deborah, if she didn't tell us
about her child...

548
00:44:41,253 --> 00:44:43,588
she has to have a deep sense of privacy.

549
00:44:45,574 --> 00:44:47,941
We can figure out
how she can still live at home.

550
00:44:48,006 --> 00:44:50,013
Hell, I don't mind driving her at night.

551
00:44:50,086 --> 00:44:52,901
Let's spare the world
you on the roads, okay?

552
00:44:53,255 --> 00:44:54,978
What am I gonna do?

553
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,869
I'm sorry, my friend, but this is what I need.

554
00:45:06,151 --> 00:45:08,039
It's just for the summer.

555
00:45:08,744 --> 00:45:11,078
I don't want to lose you, but...

556
00:45:48,459 --> 00:45:50,631
She said she live here with you.

557
00:45:52,683 --> 00:45:52,972
Hey, Cristina!

558
00:45:52,972 --> 00:45:54,401
Hey, Cristina!

559
00:45:54,955 --> 00:45:57,411
Malibu. Malibu.

560
00:46:02,477 --> 00:46:06,700
<i>The first time one sees natural beauty
which is privately owned...</i>

561
00:46:07,181 --> 00:46:11,011
<i>oceans as people's backyards
confounds the senses.</i>

562
00:46:11,085 --> 00:46:12,427
Oh, my gosh.

563
00:46:12,493 --> 00:46:15,210
<i>I didn't know God had a toy store
for the rich.</i>

564
00:46:15,277 --> 00:46:18,409
The beaches are so clean. It's beautiful.

565
00:46:25,486 --> 00:46:26,893
Three months?

566
00:46:27,918 --> 00:46:30,788
We're gonna be staying here
for three months.

567
00:46:32,398 --> 00:46:36,709
We're gonna be staying at this beach
for three months! This is amazing!

568
00:46:39,599 --> 00:46:41,454
You want to go swimming?

569
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,073
Look at this child.

570
00:46:53,424 --> 00:46:56,937
Oh, God, you could make a fortune
at surrogate pregnancy.

571
00:46:58,897 --> 00:47:00,490
How you doing? I'm John.

572
00:47:00,561 --> 00:47:01,968
- Hello.
- Great.

573
00:47:02,129 --> 00:47:04,104
Come on out and meet everybody.

574
00:47:05,138 --> 00:47:08,367
I'm Deborah
and this is my daughter, Bernice.

575
00:47:10,322 --> 00:47:11,882
Here's Georgie...

576
00:47:12,882 --> 00:47:14,540
and my mother, Evelyn Wright.

577
00:47:14,610 --> 00:47:15,919
So glad to meet you.

578
00:47:15,987 --> 00:47:18,802
No comparisons, please.

579
00:47:19,442 --> 00:47:22,126
I'm not even gonna respond to that.
Come here.

580
00:47:25,107 --> 00:47:29,297
My mom says it's best if we go, get
out of your way, and put our things away.

581
00:47:29,395 --> 00:47:31,337
Yes, go get settled.

582
00:47:36,948 --> 00:47:39,436
Thank you so much. I'm thrilled to be here.

583
00:47:45,269 --> 00:47:46,479
Okay, here's the idea.

584
00:47:46,549 --> 00:47:50,805
I need to make a serving platter
for serving fish out of sea glass like this.

585
00:47:51,797 --> 00:47:55,114
Just bits of broken glass
that the ocean sand...

586
00:47:55,190 --> 00:47:56,978
blasts over the years.

587
00:47:57,462 --> 00:48:00,397
So here's the deal.
You guys go hunting for it.

588
00:48:00,886 --> 00:48:03,821
I'll give you 50 cents for any piece you find.

589
00:48:05,078 --> 00:48:08,941
A dollar for any piece
that's bigger than that sucker right there.

590
00:48:09,591 --> 00:48:13,901
All right, $5 for any piece
that isn't brown, clear, or green.

591
00:48:14,616 --> 00:48:16,558
- Do we really have to do this?
- What?

592
00:48:16,632 --> 00:48:20,047
- Come on.
- Let's go. Let's do this. Have fun.

593
00:48:20,791 --> 00:48:22,799
- Come on, Chum.
- Go get them, kid.

594
00:48:23,896 --> 00:48:26,318
- Me, too?
- Yes, of course.

595
00:48:26,968 --> 00:48:28,245
Thank you.

596
00:48:35,289 --> 00:48:37,710
Oh, my God, Georgie.

597
00:49:13,277 --> 00:49:16,593
Cristina! Up here. Over here.

598
00:49:45,279 --> 00:49:46,708
What's wrong?

599
00:49:48,543 --> 00:49:50,486
She's wild-eyed over this.

600
00:49:51,903 --> 00:49:53,791
Flor.

601
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:01,916
I'm sorry.

602
00:50:02,849 --> 00:50:04,223
Very sorry.

603
00:50:06,048 --> 00:50:08,437
Listen, she'll be back shortly.

604
00:50:11,521 --> 00:50:14,587
No, you don't have to work. Give me that.

605
00:50:23,010 --> 00:50:24,058
Here.

606
00:50:26,178 --> 00:50:27,324
Thanks.

607
00:50:30,243 --> 00:50:31,901
Deb made a mistake.

608
00:50:33,795 --> 00:50:35,737
I understand how you feel.

609
00:50:36,483 --> 00:50:39,266
Do you understand what I'm saying
right now, at all?

610
00:50:40,419 --> 00:50:44,217
<i>- No.
- Good. Is simpàtico the word?</i>

611
00:50:54,693 --> 00:50:56,930
<i>Uno momento. That's Italian.</i>

612
00:50:58,949 --> 00:51:01,600
I really am sorry that this is happening.

613
00:51:02,118 --> 00:51:04,005
I wanted you to know that.

614
00:51:04,390 --> 00:51:07,292
I really. So sorry. Truly.

615
00:51:10,054 --> 00:51:11,778
I didn't mean like...

616
00:51:15,078 --> 00:51:16,834
I meant just a normal sorry.

617
00:51:19,335 --> 00:51:21,222
So, I'm going to go to work.

618
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:32,483
Thank you so much.

619
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:36,640
- Thank you so much for taking me there.
- Stop thanking me.

620
00:51:36,904 --> 00:51:39,293
I really enjoyed having the company.

621
00:51:39,848 --> 00:51:41,572
The flea market was just...

622
00:51:41,737 --> 00:51:44,487
I don't know what to say. It was just...

623
00:51:44,553 --> 00:51:46,015
so many things.

624
00:51:46,345 --> 00:51:49,443
And you.
You knew so much about all of them.

625
00:51:50,153 --> 00:51:53,088
The way you made those people
lower the prices, though.

626
00:51:53,610 --> 00:51:55,552
I just think that you're...

627
00:51:56,938 --> 00:52:00,800
- Never mind.
- No, go ahead. I can take it.

628
00:52:01,578 --> 00:52:03,488
I just think that you're...

629
00:52:04,650 --> 00:52:07,717
the most amazing white woman
that I've ever met.

630
00:52:13,291 --> 00:52:17,066
That is so nice to hear.

631
00:52:18,443 --> 00:52:22,405
Absurd, but deeply appreciated, Cristina.

632
00:52:29,645 --> 00:52:32,362
Oh, my gosh.
Thank you so much. That was so fun.

633
00:52:34,253 --> 00:52:36,587
- This was the best day ever.
- What?

634
00:52:37,293 --> 00:52:39,203
Did something bad happen?

635
00:52:41,421 --> 00:52:44,585
Cristina, tell your mother those wash
right out. It's no big deal.

636
00:52:44,654 --> 00:52:46,083
Not right now.

637
00:52:50,159 --> 00:52:51,403
What?

638
00:52:52,335 --> 00:52:55,783
You can't just take someone else's kid
and then make them over.

639
00:52:55,855 --> 00:52:59,368
Don't go there. Or I'll go there,
and you know where "there" is.

640
00:53:04,656 --> 00:53:08,202
Can you believe what a big deal
Flor is making this into?

641
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:12,874
Please, shoot me
if I ever become that hard to deal with.

642
00:53:30,193 --> 00:53:32,016
- What's this?
- For you.

643
00:53:32,850 --> 00:53:33,963
From?

644
00:53:34,898 --> 00:53:36,938
Look, you are not yourself.

645
00:53:37,010 --> 00:53:40,305
This was written in anger. Will you hold on?

646
00:53:40,371 --> 00:53:42,859
Sleep on it.
You still want me to have it, that's fine.

647
00:53:42,931 --> 00:53:44,043
Take the letter.

648
00:53:44,115 --> 00:53:47,377
I don't think that you will,
once calm and rational thought returns.

649
00:53:47,443 --> 00:53:49,899
- Take the letter, Deborah.
- Just sleep on it.

650
00:53:52,596 --> 00:53:55,214
She didn't even want us to know
she had a daughter...

651
00:53:55,284 --> 00:53:58,863
and on the first day you take her kid away
without even asking?

652
00:53:59,412 --> 00:54:01,649
- I think that's a little...
- What?

653
00:54:02,036 --> 00:54:04,371
Insensitive? Elitist?

654
00:54:04,437 --> 00:54:08,234
Narcissistic? Irresponsible? Perverse?
Dizzy? What?

655
00:54:08,469 --> 00:54:09,614
Stupid.

656
00:54:12,053 --> 00:54:14,475
When is anyone in this damn house...

657
00:54:14,549 --> 00:54:17,364
in this damn life
gonna consider my feelings?

658
00:54:17,654 --> 00:54:20,043
I tried to make a lovely kid feel welcome.

659
00:54:20,118 --> 00:54:22,256
There is no reason to rake this over.

660
00:54:22,326 --> 00:54:26,385
I let it go and gave Flor the room to let it go,
which I'm sure she has.

661
00:54:27,063 --> 00:54:30,543
It's over, so just get on board, pal.

662
00:54:33,111 --> 00:54:34,289
I slept.

663
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:52,691
Well, I'm broke.

664
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:57,910
No, please. Don't worry about it.
You really don't have to pay me.

665
00:54:57,977 --> 00:55:00,661
- Please, don't worry about it.
- I'm just kidding.

666
00:55:03,450 --> 00:55:06,745
- When you count it up, give me a holler.
- I did count.

667
00:55:07,066 --> 00:55:10,579
Many times. I didn't sleep. I counted.

668
00:55:10,650 --> 00:55:13,465
All right, what do I owe you? Give it to me.

669
00:55:14,906 --> 00:55:16,281
$640.

670
00:55:17,755 --> 00:55:19,511
- Really?
- Yes.

671
00:55:20,155 --> 00:55:22,326
- I'm really sorry.
- No.

672
00:55:24,828 --> 00:55:26,868
All right. I don't know.

673
00:55:26,940 --> 00:55:30,202
How about
we figure this out tomorrow, okay?

674
00:55:30,268 --> 00:55:33,137
You even told me, you said that $5...

675
00:55:33,436 --> 00:55:35,541
I know, I promised.

676
00:55:37,276 --> 00:55:41,051
It's all coming back to me now.
Let me just go deal with this.

677
00:56:35,183 --> 00:56:37,006
Cristina?

678
00:57:05,821 --> 00:57:07,098
Oh, baby.

679
00:57:10,976 --> 00:57:13,792
My mother wishes for me to represent
exactly what she says...

680
00:57:13,858 --> 00:57:15,898
- nothing else.
- What?

681
00:57:17,219 --> 00:57:19,903
- May I talk to you?
- You mean your mother?

682
00:57:24,550 --> 00:57:26,788
Yeah. Sure.

683
00:57:29,865 --> 00:57:31,524
You can talk to me.

684
00:57:33,771 --> 00:57:35,779
I don't have to sleep first?

685
00:57:41,198 --> 00:57:43,436
What's wrong? Come on, sit down.

686
00:57:46,064 --> 00:57:47,341
I'm sorry.

687
00:57:48,274 --> 00:57:50,609
Did you give this money to my daughter?

688
00:57:50,675 --> 00:57:54,189
I made a deal with the kids. All the kids.

689
00:57:55,381 --> 00:57:56,658
Oh, no! Please.

690
00:57:58,871 --> 00:58:02,582
You don't tell or ask the mother
when you give a child a fortune...

691
00:58:02,904 --> 00:58:06,168
for looking on the beach for stones?

692
00:58:07,898 --> 00:58:10,420
- What is the word for this?
- Sea glass.

693
00:58:14,590 --> 00:58:16,446
No, not a name for the stones.

694
00:58:19,009 --> 00:58:21,465
A name for the action, what you did.

695
00:58:25,123 --> 00:58:27,580
<i>Oh, boy, engreído is gonna be rough.</i>

696
00:58:30,405 --> 00:58:31,453
Smug.

697
00:58:33,191 --> 00:58:36,258
I had no idea
it was going to amount to that much money.

698
00:58:36,328 --> 00:58:38,631
I thought, sort of tops, $50.

699
00:58:47,598 --> 00:58:49,606
But $50 is a lot of money.

700
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:53,612
I know.

701
00:58:55,058 --> 00:58:56,400
Oh, shit!

702
00:58:57,875 --> 00:58:59,883
I'm sorry. Come on.

703
00:59:01,557 --> 00:59:03,696
I get what you're upset about.

704
00:59:05,526 --> 00:59:06,803
Excuse me.

705
00:59:09,048 --> 00:59:12,083
It might not look it,
but I am good at getting things.

706
00:59:16,636 --> 00:59:20,500
I know what it's like
when you feel your kid's being messed with.

707
00:59:26,337 --> 00:59:28,126
It won't happen again.

708
00:59:33,764 --> 00:59:35,009
It won't.

709
00:59:40,007 --> 00:59:41,534
- All right.
- Okay.

710
00:59:41,608 --> 00:59:44,031
It's late. You guys get some sleep.

711
00:59:46,378 --> 00:59:47,491
Sleep?

712
00:59:48,619 --> 00:59:49,602
No.

713
00:59:53,838 --> 00:59:57,188
If this was small enough to be helped
by some little apology...

714
00:59:57,263 --> 00:59:59,239
I would be a fool to bring it up.

715
00:59:59,920 --> 01:00:02,671
But I need to say,
no matter what the result...

716
01:00:03,890 --> 01:00:05,680
I need to be impolite.

717
01:00:07,828 --> 01:00:10,350
You leave someone else's child alone.

718
01:00:10,902 --> 01:00:12,429
It is simple, no?

719
01:00:12,503 --> 01:00:16,280
It is too easy for children
to feel contradictions...

720
01:00:16,345 --> 01:00:19,096
and it encourages questioning their parents.

721
01:00:19,994 --> 01:00:22,264
And that makes them feel less safe.

722
01:00:23,772 --> 01:00:24,820
Look.

723
01:00:27,006 --> 01:00:29,276
Your wife takes her for little tours.

724
01:00:30,911 --> 01:00:32,887
And she changes her hair.

725
01:00:34,625 --> 01:00:36,284
And you give her money.

726
01:00:36,867 --> 01:00:39,039
Here, take back the money.

727
01:01:04,431 --> 01:01:08,328
I didn't really mean to be angry to you.
Only emotional, for me.

728
01:01:14,388 --> 01:01:16,331
What about hypocritical?

729
01:01:19,607 --> 01:01:23,023
Yes, you heard me!
It's not like you didn't do the same thing.

730
01:01:23,096 --> 01:01:24,504
Yes, you did.

731
01:01:24,569 --> 01:01:29,208
So why don't you go lecture yourself?
You won't need a translator for that one.

732
01:01:29,499 --> 01:01:31,802
What am I lately, a recycling bin?

733
01:01:31,868 --> 01:01:35,645
Anybody dump in your garbage
and hope I make something useful out of it?

734
01:01:36,511 --> 01:01:38,651
Yes, you did the same thing.

735
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:43,136
You think I don't know
about you altering those outfits for Bernie?

736
01:01:43,202 --> 01:01:45,112
She tells me her stuff.

737
01:01:45,347 --> 01:01:46,908
So am I missing something?

738
01:01:46,980 --> 01:01:51,041
Is there really a difference between that
and what you're complaining about?

739
01:01:51,110 --> 01:01:52,452
Excuse me.

740
01:02:03,819 --> 01:02:06,187
There's no difference. I interfered.

741
01:02:09,807 --> 01:02:11,334
You're kidding me?

742
01:02:13,552 --> 01:02:16,369
It's just pretty wild
to say something to somebody...

743
01:02:16,434 --> 01:02:19,250
and have the other person
just concede the point.

744
01:02:22,388 --> 01:02:23,916
I'm dazed here.

745
01:02:36,316 --> 01:02:38,324
I feel really embarrassed.

746
01:02:41,694 --> 01:02:44,445
And you were very right. Hypocrisy, yes.

747
01:02:44,511 --> 01:02:47,960
Okay, that doesn't happen very often.

748
01:02:54,180 --> 01:02:56,515
She said we'll leave
whenever it is good for you.

749
01:02:56,581 --> 01:02:59,517
No! Come on, man.

750
01:03:01,127 --> 01:03:04,609
But how can I keep working for you
after we talked like this?

751
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:06,591
You can't quit the job.

752
01:03:06,730 --> 01:03:09,960
Even if you wanted to. And you know why.

753
01:03:15,534 --> 01:03:16,615
No.

754
01:03:16,974 --> 01:03:18,404
Yes, you do.

755
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:21,004
You know.

756
01:03:23,922 --> 01:03:25,003
Why?

757
01:03:25,427 --> 01:03:26,704
Because if you do...

758
01:03:26,771 --> 01:03:30,034
Cristina will blame herself
for costing you the job.

759
01:03:34,904 --> 01:03:36,497
And that guilt...

760
01:03:38,329 --> 01:03:40,948
I don't know if you know about guilt.

761
01:03:44,219 --> 01:03:47,036
Guilt, we know. We're Catholics.

762
01:03:48,542 --> 01:03:49,720
We know.

763
01:03:51,391 --> 01:03:53,246
You can't do that to her.

764
01:03:59,427 --> 01:04:00,834
Welcome back.

765
01:04:07,239 --> 01:04:08,581
Good night.

766
01:04:10,248 --> 01:04:11,590
Good night.

767
01:04:14,282 --> 01:04:18,213
You can't be translating for me all the time.
I need to learn English now.

768
01:04:20,941 --> 01:04:23,593
I really wasn't supposed to translate that.

769
01:04:23,823 --> 01:04:26,890
Listen to your mother. She knows it all.

770
01:04:36,373 --> 01:04:40,303
<i>Learning English would cost $599 down...</i>

771
01:04:40,471 --> 01:04:43,342
<i>and 12 monthly payments of $86...</i>

772
01:04:43,832 --> 01:04:46,768
<i>which represents 22% interest.</i>

773
01:04:48,795 --> 01:04:51,000
<i>Assimilation gets expensive.</i>

774
01:04:51,708 --> 01:04:53,913
<i>But not a penny was wasted.</i>

775
01:04:55,293 --> 01:04:56,406
<i>Food.</i>

776
01:04:56,799 --> 01:04:57,912
Food.

777
01:04:59,552 --> 01:05:02,236
<i>- I am just learning English.
- I am just learning English.</i>

778
01:05:02,337 --> 01:05:04,443
<i>- Please repeat.
- Please repeat.</i>

779
01:05:04,514 --> 01:05:05,922
<i>- Neck.
- Neck.</i>

780
01:05:06,947 --> 01:05:08,574
<i>- Nose.
- Nose.</i>

781
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:18,721
Go!

782
01:05:25,452 --> 01:05:26,915
It is summer...

783
01:05:26,989 --> 01:05:28,778
<i>...winter...
...winter...</i>

784
01:05:28,878 --> 01:05:30,701
<i>...spring.
...spring.</i>

785
01:05:32,111 --> 01:05:33,159
Sun.

786
01:05:33,232 --> 01:05:34,694
<i>- Sunny.
- Sunny.</i>

787
01:05:34,768 --> 01:05:36,263
<i>- No.
- Several.</i>

788
01:05:38,066 --> 01:05:39,593
<i>- Several.
- Several.</i>

789
01:05:39,666 --> 01:05:41,358
<i>- Again.
- Several.</i>

790
01:05:41,428 --> 01:05:42,639
<i>Good. Several.</i>

791
01:05:43,605 --> 01:05:45,362
<i>- Too many.
- Too many.</i>

792
01:05:45,429 --> 01:05:46,542
<i>Right. Too many.</i>

793
01:05:46,614 --> 01:05:48,655
How about a movie tonight?

794
01:05:48,887 --> 01:05:52,085
Have you any particular one in mind?

795
01:05:52,345 --> 01:05:55,281
<i>I really enjoyed the Star Wars trilogy...</i>

796
01:05:55,610 --> 01:05:57,400
by Mr. George Lucas.

797
01:05:58,716 --> 01:06:00,211
Congratulations, John.

798
01:06:00,285 --> 01:06:02,425
Chef, it just keeps building.

799
01:06:04,638 --> 01:06:05,883
Sorry.

800
01:06:06,015 --> 01:06:09,333
Should we stop answering the phone?
We're booked for four months solid.

801
01:06:09,409 --> 01:06:10,522
No.

802
01:06:10,818 --> 01:06:14,431
I want to keep some walk-in business.
I want this to stay neighborhood.

803
01:06:14,499 --> 01:06:18,363
- The trick is stay the same.
- Impossible, John. There'd be riots.

804
01:06:18,438 --> 01:06:20,708
You should hear the desperation
in their voices.

805
01:06:20,774 --> 01:06:23,231
This is the best time of your life.

806
01:06:23,784 --> 01:06:26,633
Yes, that includes our 5:30 seating as well.

807
01:06:26,697 --> 01:06:28,673
I know. Could you hold for one minute?

808
01:06:30,571 --> 01:06:32,197
We'll serve the full menu at the bar.

809
01:06:32,268 --> 01:06:35,848
Where will I put people waiting for a table?
It won't work, John.

810
01:06:35,918 --> 01:06:37,642
- Do this for me.
- There's no way.

811
01:06:37,710 --> 01:06:42,447
Do this for me or I'll set my hair on fire
and start punching myself in the face!

812
01:06:44,658 --> 01:06:46,317
Yeah, you're right.

813
01:06:46,387 --> 01:06:49,105
That was an unusual way
for me to make myself understood.

814
01:07:18,883 --> 01:07:20,061
Phone!

815
01:07:20,707 --> 01:07:22,334
- It's Mike.
- Great.

816
01:07:24,101 --> 01:07:27,933
Yeah, I'm just walking out the door.
Okey-dokey. Okay, thanks.

817
01:07:29,831 --> 01:07:31,490
Great. Thank you.

818
01:07:35,434 --> 01:07:37,409
Thank you for the ride home...

819
01:07:37,483 --> 01:07:39,972
but it was not necessary.

820
01:07:52,722 --> 01:07:54,633
All right, yes.

821
01:07:55,572 --> 01:07:58,869
Four stars
and I've never been more unhappy.

822
01:07:59,830 --> 01:08:02,100
Up. Yes.

823
01:08:05,529 --> 01:08:08,792
He's got this. Incredible obstacle.

824
01:08:31,781 --> 01:08:34,336
<i>I don't know what to wear to the party.</i>

825
01:08:34,407 --> 01:08:35,749
<i>I'm wearing jeans.</i>

826
01:08:40,233 --> 01:08:42,241
<i>Do you want to wear jeans?</i>

827
01:09:03,029 --> 01:09:05,419
<i>What are you wearing to the party?</i>

828
01:09:19,708 --> 01:09:22,874
Who's always there for you
at 2:30 in the morning?

829
01:09:36,356 --> 01:09:40,700
You'd better do something about Chum.
You're gonna throw your arm out.

830
01:09:41,958 --> 01:09:43,869
Don't you sleep anymore?

831
01:09:45,064 --> 01:09:49,289
The more you do it, the more you learn.

832
01:09:50,827 --> 01:09:52,770
Flor, you're doing fantastic.

833
01:09:52,844 --> 01:09:53,892
- No.
- Yes.

834
01:09:53,965 --> 01:09:56,169
Now I am like a 2-year-old.

835
01:09:59,215 --> 01:10:00,197
I finish.

836
01:10:00,271 --> 01:10:04,583
No, keep going. No, not until you finish it.

837
01:10:07,443 --> 01:10:09,069
Your wife go out.

838
01:10:13,078 --> 01:10:15,151
- Did she say where?
- No.

839
01:10:19,449 --> 01:10:20,627
Sorry.

840
01:10:23,195 --> 01:10:24,854
Listen, she's...

841
01:10:27,516 --> 01:10:30,649
I forgot she was going out.
Don't be a smart-ass.

842
01:10:32,287 --> 01:10:33,629
I'm sorry.

843
01:10:36,673 --> 01:10:38,135
You and I...

844
01:10:38,786 --> 01:10:42,082
we communicate in apologies anyway...

845
01:10:42,148 --> 01:10:45,979
so I'm sorry. I should be whipped.

846
01:10:46,053 --> 01:10:48,956
I should be stoned. It's been a while.

847
01:10:51,336 --> 01:10:54,119
I meant to say don't be smart...

848
01:10:54,473 --> 01:10:56,100
not a smart-ass.

849
01:11:00,940 --> 01:11:02,468
Don't be kind.

850
01:11:03,022 --> 01:11:05,292
Don't be sensitive.

851
01:11:06,159 --> 01:11:08,910
Don't be wonderful.

852
01:11:11,730 --> 01:11:14,633
I'm way too close. I'm sorry again.

853
01:11:15,987 --> 01:11:18,028
I meant to say, "Hi, Flor."

854
01:11:18,613 --> 01:11:20,304
Good night, Flor.

855
01:11:20,374 --> 01:11:23,223
That show you're watching
is gonna be a hit.

856
01:11:34,652 --> 01:11:36,661
Hey, pal, you want to...

857
01:11:40,511 --> 01:11:42,268
Go, Chum. No!

858
01:11:44,161 --> 01:11:46,617
Go to him. Go!

859
01:11:51,428 --> 01:11:54,430
Man, you do love me. I was wondering.

860
01:11:58,312 --> 01:12:01,510
What about the point I'm making?
It's good, right?

861
01:12:01,770 --> 01:12:04,040
Cristina has already read, on her own...

862
01:12:04,106 --> 01:12:06,595
every book
on Bernice's summer reading list.

863
01:12:06,668 --> 01:12:08,262
And she's two grades behind her.

864
01:12:08,333 --> 01:12:11,368
Can you imagine
if she went to Bernice's school?

865
01:12:12,975 --> 01:12:16,588
I think I could probably get her
a scholarship. God knows they owe me.

866
01:12:16,656 --> 01:12:18,283
Talk to Flor.

867
01:12:18,354 --> 01:12:20,657
Yeah. She's so open to new things.

868
01:12:26,197 --> 01:12:27,888
Where're you going?

869
01:12:28,278 --> 01:12:30,516
I'm going out.

870
01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:34,190
It's this whole...
Anyway, I'm probably actually gonna be...

871
01:12:34,521 --> 01:12:37,719
The cell will be bad,
so I'll just check in with you later.

872
01:12:44,991 --> 01:12:46,901
I just can't find my keys.

873
01:12:48,576 --> 01:12:49,919
Good morning, Ms. Folsom.

874
01:12:51,489 --> 01:12:54,360
- Deborah.
- Arlene, what a surprise.

875
01:12:55,619 --> 01:12:58,522
This is Cristina,
the girl I am always raving to you about.

876
01:12:58,596 --> 01:13:01,664
This is Arlene Folsom,
she's the School Director.

877
01:13:01,734 --> 01:13:03,775
- Hi.
- Hello, a pleasure to meet you, Ms. Folsom.

878
01:13:03,848 --> 01:13:06,216
- Would you like a little tour?
- Really?

879
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:07,393
Great.

880
01:13:10,506 --> 01:13:12,580
She's gorgeous, isn't she?

881
01:13:12,907 --> 01:13:14,184
Hispanic.

882
01:13:17,902 --> 01:13:21,286
We ran into the head of the school
and Cristina knocked her out.

883
01:13:21,359 --> 01:13:23,084
I had nothing to do with it.

884
01:13:23,153 --> 01:13:24,877
Incidentally, the scholarship...

885
01:13:24,945 --> 01:13:28,045
is worth $20,000
and early registration is tomorrow.

886
01:13:29,524 --> 01:13:31,565
It's too far from my home.

887
01:13:31,637 --> 01:13:34,256
You could move in to town with us.

888
01:13:34,646 --> 01:13:36,108
Never, thank you.

889
01:13:36,471 --> 01:13:38,064
Fine, then don't.

890
01:13:39,224 --> 01:13:42,008
By the way, the phrase is "no, thank you."

891
01:13:43,674 --> 01:13:46,425
<i>Mom was caught in a vise of manipulation.</i>

892
01:13:46,492 --> 01:13:48,019
Please, dear God...

893
01:13:48,092 --> 01:13:51,028
this is the most important prayer of my life.

894
01:13:51,102 --> 01:13:54,202
It's about my education.
The health of my brain.

895
01:13:54,271 --> 01:13:57,339
Please, dear God, enter my mother's heart.

896
01:13:57,409 --> 01:13:59,963
Make her understand
what this school means.

897
01:14:40,694 --> 01:14:42,549
- Hi, Flor.
- Hi.

898
01:14:42,775 --> 01:14:44,915
Want some port?

899
01:14:45,176 --> 01:14:46,703
No, thank you, Evelyn.

900
01:14:47,225 --> 01:14:48,982
- How you doing?
- Hi.

901
01:14:49,722 --> 01:14:51,381
I was just leaving.

902
01:14:56,573 --> 01:14:58,429
What? Okay.

903
01:14:58,494 --> 01:15:01,398
- Poor guy.
- What?

904
01:15:05,153 --> 01:15:06,714
Nobody noticed.

905
01:15:08,803 --> 01:15:09,884
Flor?

906
01:15:12,068 --> 01:15:13,825
Thanks for never judging me.

907
01:15:15,975 --> 01:15:20,100
I love you. I love everybody.
That's what's killing me.

908
01:15:34,832 --> 01:15:36,588
May I talk with you?

909
01:15:36,657 --> 01:15:37,672
Me?

910
01:15:39,442 --> 01:15:40,872
I just spoke to Deborah.

911
01:15:40,946 --> 01:15:44,047
She'll be back soon
if you need to go over something.

912
01:15:44,116 --> 01:15:46,637
I need to really talk. Is okay?

913
01:15:48,534 --> 01:15:51,634
- No.
- No! Sure.

914
01:15:52,696 --> 01:15:54,671
Sure. I'm sorry.

915
01:15:58,747 --> 01:16:01,432
- Outside?
- Okay.

916
01:16:18,372 --> 01:16:20,675
You have me a little nervous here.

917
01:16:22,567 --> 01:16:26,016
Are we ever gonna stop? Just asking.

918
01:16:33,387 --> 01:16:36,836
You know about Cristina
and your private school?

919
01:16:38,894 --> 01:16:40,488
Oh, that.

920
01:16:42,064 --> 01:16:44,967
- They did it.
- I don't know what to do.

921
01:16:45,489 --> 01:16:48,393
Don't ask me.
I'm worried about my own kid going there.

922
01:16:48,466 --> 01:16:52,811
They keep sending her home
anxiety-ridden, mostly over geometry.

923
01:16:53,557 --> 01:16:55,827
I mean, you get Bernice. In a decent world...

924
01:16:55,894 --> 01:16:58,863
her school should let her know
how great she is, right?

925
01:16:59,768 --> 01:17:02,158
You don't have to worry about Bernice.

926
01:17:02,681 --> 01:17:05,236
Nothing is going to change that heart.

927
01:17:11,101 --> 01:17:12,629
Yeah, thanks.

928
01:17:18,817 --> 01:17:20,225
It's just...

929
01:17:22,563 --> 01:17:25,379
great to hear someone else
say that out loud.

930
01:17:28,806 --> 01:17:30,301
Hard to explain.

931
01:17:35,689 --> 01:17:38,789
I'm sorry. I take you here and...

932
01:17:40,364 --> 01:17:42,536
- I make too much of this, right?
- No!

933
01:17:42,604 --> 01:17:46,436
You have a right to worry about this.
This is the job. These are the decisions.

934
01:17:46,510 --> 01:17:49,294
Worrying about your children is sanity.

935
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:53,869
And being that sane, the way you are,
can drive you nuts.

936
01:17:56,051 --> 01:17:58,223
Someone like you, I'm sorry.

937
01:17:58,292 --> 01:18:01,228
If you think you're at some crossroads,
you are.

938
01:18:03,415 --> 01:18:04,725
You are.

939
01:18:08,921 --> 01:18:11,738
Hey, I wish I could help you more.

940
01:18:21,087 --> 01:18:25,082
I never know a man who can put himself
in my place like you do.

941
01:18:28,131 --> 01:18:30,139
How did you become that man?

942
01:18:33,605 --> 01:18:35,099
I don't know.

943
01:18:47,371 --> 01:18:50,056
Would you get out of the damn wind?
Sit down!

944
01:18:54,799 --> 01:18:58,510
I didn't mean to... I want to be helpful.

945
01:19:01,522 --> 01:19:04,688
It must be hard being a widow,
doing it on your own.

946
01:19:07,766 --> 01:19:10,549
Why do you think I am a widow?

947
01:19:15,321 --> 01:19:16,980
I guess I thought...

948
01:19:20,315 --> 01:19:23,066
that would be the only way
a guy would leave you.

949
01:19:27,006 --> 01:19:28,469
So, okay...

950
01:19:30,272 --> 01:19:32,095
are you gonna send her?

951
01:19:33,826 --> 01:19:35,233
I don't know.

952
01:19:36,803 --> 01:19:39,838
I think if I do, one of two things happens.

953
01:19:42,278 --> 01:19:44,930
Either she will be odd?

954
01:19:45,639 --> 01:19:47,167
Odd, yes.

955
01:19:47,464 --> 01:19:50,280
Or she will make herself the same as them.

956
01:19:53,451 --> 01:19:56,322
I felt the same way
about my kid going there.

957
01:19:57,356 --> 01:20:00,871
So between odd and the same,
you gotta be rooting for odd, don't you?

958
01:20:01,871 --> 01:20:03,497
Yes, you gotta.

959
01:20:13,973 --> 01:20:16,592
Thank you. Good night. I go to sleep.

960
01:20:21,272 --> 01:20:23,280
You speaking English, it's...

961
01:20:25,851 --> 01:20:27,674
- What?
- Nothing.

962
01:20:33,022 --> 01:20:34,452
It's nice meeting you.

963
01:20:54,825 --> 01:20:56,418
Here they are.

964
01:20:58,923 --> 01:21:01,641
Hey, you guys just made it.
I was getting worried.

965
01:21:05,038 --> 01:21:07,657
I picked up your books yesterday.

966
01:21:07,726 --> 01:21:11,241
I put them
in one of Bernie's old, ancient backpacks.

967
01:21:12,625 --> 01:21:15,212
Thank you. This is gonna be a great school.

968
01:21:15,282 --> 01:21:17,193
I can tell by the weight.

969
01:21:18,035 --> 01:21:21,714
I got her just a little
first-day-at-a-new-school present.

970
01:21:21,781 --> 01:21:23,887
Just a little something from me and Bernie.

971
01:21:23,958 --> 01:21:26,261
It's okay, right? Come on, it's a big day.

972
01:21:26,872 --> 01:21:28,531
What did we get her?

973
01:21:33,691 --> 01:21:35,001
Wait.

974
01:21:39,966 --> 01:21:42,040
- Here it comes.
- Hold on.

975
01:21:47,169 --> 01:21:49,626
It's from all of us. Your mom, too.

976
01:21:51,203 --> 01:21:52,927
It's not from me.

977
01:21:56,326 --> 01:21:59,010
Let's get going. Don't be late. Come on.

978
01:22:04,938 --> 01:22:07,590
Thank you so much for this opportunity.

979
01:22:09,164 --> 01:22:10,691
And everything.

980
01:22:14,414 --> 01:22:16,325
Have a great year, girls.

981
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:19,114
This is so great.

982
01:22:40,634 --> 01:22:41,682
Left.

983
01:22:46,142 --> 01:22:47,419
No left.

984
01:23:07,079 --> 01:23:10,529
You're fast. Better pace yourself.

985
01:23:19,309 --> 01:23:22,442
You know, I ran college track. Watch out.

986
01:23:36,374 --> 01:23:38,895
Look, they're delivering my table.

987
01:23:42,104 --> 01:23:43,446
See you.

988
01:23:47,355 --> 01:23:49,266
I love you for trying!

989
01:23:53,054 --> 01:23:57,114
<i>When people exist under one roof,
a tiny society forms...</i>

990
01:23:57,664 --> 01:23:59,999
<i>the stuff of novellas...</i>

991
01:24:00,161 --> 01:24:04,920
<i>masters and servants
unconsciously dancing in lock step...</i>

992
01:24:05,444 --> 01:24:07,681
<i>so that when things go wrong...</i>

993
01:24:08,357 --> 01:24:10,245
<i>traumas converge.</i>

994
01:24:11,815 --> 01:24:16,072
<i>At Mrs. Clasky's urging, I had invited
two of my friends to her house...</i>

995
01:24:16,745 --> 01:24:18,851
<i>though I was expected at home.</i>

996
01:24:20,074 --> 01:24:24,004
<i>Monica had finally managed
to get her mother here from Mexico...</i>

997
01:24:24,076 --> 01:24:26,379
<i>and my mother was making a party.</i>

998
01:24:35,954 --> 01:24:37,416
Flor? Deb.

999
01:24:37,491 --> 01:24:39,826
Sorry to call you so late.

1000
01:24:39,892 --> 01:24:42,478
But the girls are still studying
and I gotta go out.

1001
01:24:42,549 --> 01:24:44,208
<i>I know I promised to get her back...</i>

1002
01:24:44,278 --> 01:24:46,418
<i>so if you want me
to cut off the schoolwork...</i>

1003
01:24:46,487 --> 01:24:48,398
that's fine, whatever you want.

1004
01:24:50,745 --> 01:24:52,023
Let me think.

1005
01:24:52,634 --> 01:24:54,871
Okay, you think about it.

1006
01:24:55,131 --> 01:24:58,613
Hey, listen, Flor, if you're tired...

1007
01:24:58,685 --> 01:25:00,508
<i>or you want to play, just...</i>

1008
01:25:00,574 --> 01:25:04,350
let her sleep here tonight.
I'll get her back to you in the morning.

1009
01:25:05,024 --> 01:25:07,643
You think about it. Call me back. Bye.

1010
01:25:44,915 --> 01:25:48,561
Wait. I need to talk to you privately, honey.

1011
01:25:48,629 --> 01:25:50,802
"Honey"? No, Mother. I can't right now.

1012
01:25:50,870 --> 01:25:53,205
I'm really late.
I've been looking all over for you.

1013
01:25:53,271 --> 01:25:56,055
Will you keep an eye on the kids?
You've my secret cell number.

1014
01:25:56,120 --> 01:25:57,528
Just give me a moment to talk here.

1015
01:25:57,593 --> 01:26:01,588
- What is it, are you buzzed?
- No. I gave up drinking weeks ago.

1016
01:26:02,459 --> 01:26:04,402
Yes. Nobody noticed.

1017
01:26:04,764 --> 01:26:08,279
Which shows I probably conducted myself
pretty well as a drunk.

1018
01:26:08,350 --> 01:26:11,221
But duty called, and I'm sober...

1019
01:26:11,295 --> 01:26:14,144
so, may I say just one thing?

1020
01:26:14,209 --> 01:26:17,080
- Yes, Mother, one thing. Go ahead.
- Thank you.

1021
01:26:20,227 --> 01:26:23,545
Deborah, you are going to lose
your husband...

1022
01:26:23,621 --> 01:26:26,208
if you don't stop what you are doing.

1023
01:26:26,279 --> 01:26:29,248
And you will never find someone as good.

1024
01:26:31,113 --> 01:26:34,726
There'll only be men who
you know are cheap and shallow...

1025
01:26:35,179 --> 01:26:37,864
and have no real warmth in their souls.

1026
01:26:38,284 --> 01:26:41,548
You may have gotten by
on those surfaces once but now...

1027
01:26:41,614 --> 01:26:44,103
you have been spoiled by a good man.

1028
01:26:44,176 --> 01:26:46,216
If you do not act quickly...

1029
01:26:46,832 --> 01:26:49,289
you will soon cement an awful fate
for yourself...

1030
01:26:49,362 --> 01:26:52,046
a life with no hope of repair...

1031
01:26:52,115 --> 01:26:56,689
which has already
begun to turn desperate and dumb.

1032
01:26:58,391 --> 01:27:00,530
That's it. Drive carefully.

1033
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:04,689
Out of coffee. It's over for me.

1034
01:27:04,761 --> 01:27:08,592
You've done it again, Mother.
Made me hate myself.

1035
01:27:09,179 --> 01:27:11,482
One of the things that I can count on.

1036
01:27:15,294 --> 01:27:19,573
Honey, lately your low self-esteem
is just good common sense.

1037
01:28:06,935 --> 01:28:08,660
Better wait a minute.

1038
01:28:09,976 --> 01:28:12,279
- What the hell is wrong?
- Nothing.

1039
01:28:12,346 --> 01:28:16,407
Can I urge you, in all hopelessness,
not to go in there?

1040
01:28:22,847 --> 01:28:25,401
- Where are you?
- Over here.

1041
01:28:28,866 --> 01:28:31,736
Baby, what?

1042
01:28:31,810 --> 01:28:33,666
Just stay there, John.

1043
01:28:33,731 --> 01:28:35,041
What?

1044
01:28:39,879 --> 01:28:43,590
I suddenly get what I gotta do,
but I just gotta get up the guts.

1045
01:28:43,656 --> 01:28:47,848
Is it absolutely necessary
to make it this scary?

1046
01:28:49,419 --> 01:28:51,209
Can you just say it?

1047
01:28:53,069 --> 01:28:54,630
It's not so easy.

1048
01:28:54,990 --> 01:28:57,380
Yeah. Come on, it's me. We can talk.

1049
01:28:59,024 --> 01:29:02,025
- Do I ever hope so.
- All right. Don't cry.

1050
01:29:02,513 --> 01:29:04,522
Or cry. I'm sorry.

1051
01:29:06,803 --> 01:29:08,909
Come on. What is it?

1052
01:29:13,366 --> 01:29:16,434
I've been seeing another man
for the last 11 weeks.

1053
01:29:16,504 --> 01:29:18,807
It was nothing and I ended it tonight.

1054
01:29:18,873 --> 01:29:23,479
At first it was just keeping an eye
on the real estate market, and then it was...

1055
01:29:24,860 --> 01:29:28,539
me being insecure and
searching for some ridiculous validation.

1056
01:29:28,606 --> 01:29:30,200
Hold on.

1057
01:29:33,792 --> 01:29:35,997
I'm missing what you're saying.

1058
01:29:38,979 --> 01:29:41,501
You can't keep talking...

1059
01:29:43,269 --> 01:29:46,587
and expect me to follow it
when you start the way you did.

1060
01:29:46,663 --> 01:29:48,257
Just what did you hear?

1061
01:29:50,920 --> 01:29:53,310
There was a crack in the planet.

1062
01:29:54,603 --> 01:29:56,065
That was noisy.

1063
01:30:00,749 --> 01:30:04,133
There's an actual noise in my head.
No kidding.

1064
01:30:04,687 --> 01:30:05,997
I met him...

1065
01:30:07,729 --> 01:30:10,730
If you talk that fast, I'm not gonna hear you.

1066
01:30:10,802 --> 01:30:13,323
There's a lot going through my mind
right now.

1067
01:30:17,365 --> 01:30:21,458
Have you said, yet,
whether you slept with him?

1068
01:30:24,088 --> 01:30:27,472
No, so far I've just been talking
about a flirtation. It's really...

1069
01:30:27,546 --> 01:30:31,093
Have you said whether you had sex
with another person?

1070
01:30:31,163 --> 01:30:35,356
Because I really am missing your words,
so help me out here.

1071
01:30:35,806 --> 01:30:38,743
I've been trying to explain
that for the first ten weeks...

1072
01:30:38,815 --> 01:30:40,988
You still haven't said yet, right?

1073
01:30:41,793 --> 01:30:44,609
- Is this your way...
- Yes. This is my way!

1074
01:30:44,674 --> 01:30:47,610
This is my way of asking you
whether or not you...

1075
01:30:53,766 --> 01:30:55,229
Once I ask it...

1076
01:30:56,872 --> 01:30:58,695
Just give me a second.

1077
01:31:00,458 --> 01:31:04,038
I'm trying to figure out
if there's a way to avoid knowing.

1078
01:31:08,206 --> 01:31:10,793
No. Damn it.

1079
01:31:12,496 --> 01:31:13,838
There's not.

1080
01:31:16,338 --> 01:31:18,248
Okay, you're on.

1081
01:31:19,667 --> 01:31:22,767
- Real short answer. Have you had...
- Yes.

1082
01:31:28,855 --> 01:31:30,001
Really?

1083
01:31:35,643 --> 01:31:39,125
I made up my mind that I was gonna answer
every question you had.

1084
01:31:39,197 --> 01:31:43,257
I'll answer everything, and anything,
and more.

1085
01:31:43,614 --> 01:31:46,037
What other questions could there be?

1086
01:31:47,681 --> 01:31:50,267
Are you really that much nicer than me?

1087
01:31:53,347 --> 01:31:55,585
You don't set the bar real high.

1088
01:31:56,581 --> 01:31:58,589
John, just wait, please.

1089
01:31:59,366 --> 01:32:02,684
I think that if you listen
to exactly what happened...

1090
01:32:02,759 --> 01:32:04,899
and then you could do
whatever you need to.

1091
01:32:04,969 --> 01:32:07,272
Just please let me tell you everything.

1092
01:32:15,662 --> 01:32:17,124
It's just Flor.

1093
01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:22,543
Flor, what are you doing here?

1094
01:32:22,609 --> 01:32:24,585
I want my daughter.

1095
01:32:25,810 --> 01:32:27,950
I want to talk to Mrs. Clasky.

1096
01:32:29,973 --> 01:32:31,435
I want to quit.

1097
01:32:32,950 --> 01:32:35,886
I don't think you can do
any of that right now.

1098
01:32:36,727 --> 01:32:38,037
I gotta.

1099
01:32:39,065 --> 01:32:43,377
The reason I took this chance in telling
is that I want us to be good.

1100
01:32:43,451 --> 01:32:45,306
I want us to be close.

1101
01:32:45,372 --> 01:32:49,367
I want to feel like you're not nuts
to be in love with me.

1102
01:32:50,111 --> 01:32:53,690
So what I think we should do
is that I think we should just talk.

1103
01:32:53,952 --> 01:32:55,611
Talk until we pass out.

1104
01:32:55,681 --> 01:32:59,644
Talk until we are so sick of each other
that there's nothing left to do...

1105
01:32:59,715 --> 01:33:02,367
but take that first step out of hell.

1106
01:33:03,045 --> 01:33:06,908
So let's not leave this room
until you've heard...

1107
01:33:06,982 --> 01:33:11,108
and said everything, okay? Please say okay.

1108
01:33:16,139 --> 01:33:17,666
I'm sorry. What?

1109
01:33:19,085 --> 01:33:21,028
John? You didn't hear me?

1110
01:33:22,158 --> 01:33:25,542
I gotta get out of here and you keep talking.
Stay put.

1111
01:33:31,314 --> 01:33:33,901
I don't think you want to wake her up...

1112
01:33:34,707 --> 01:33:38,321
when you're feeling this upset
and the others are right there, too.

1113
01:33:52,060 --> 01:33:54,646
What're you doing? Where're you going?

1114
01:33:54,877 --> 01:33:57,464
I am leaving. I have finally...

1115
01:33:57,951 --> 01:33:59,740
Me, too. I'll drive you.

1116
01:34:00,160 --> 01:34:03,325
- No.
- It's okay. I don't mind.

1117
01:34:04,322 --> 01:34:07,193
If you truly don't know why I say no...

1118
01:34:07,267 --> 01:34:10,302
- let me at last say the reason.
- Don't worry about it.

1119
01:34:16,360 --> 01:34:19,525
Have you no idea that I...

1120
01:34:24,203 --> 01:34:26,757
I've really gotta get out of here. Right now.

1121
01:34:26,828 --> 01:34:27,908
Go.

1122
01:34:39,058 --> 01:34:40,520
Goodbye, Chum.

1123
01:34:51,160 --> 01:34:53,714
- Goodbye.
- Wait. I'm taking you.

1124
01:34:54,073 --> 01:34:55,667
No. Why?

1125
01:34:55,739 --> 01:34:59,635
Because, if I don't, I'll worry about you
all night long. I can't handle that now.

1126
01:34:59,708 --> 01:35:01,881
Come on. Get in the car.

1127
01:35:16,036 --> 01:35:16,985
John!

1128
01:35:25,001 --> 01:35:28,351
- I quit this job.
- I quit this job!

1129
01:35:31,020 --> 01:35:34,054
I think I meant that for someone else.
I'm sorry.

1130
01:35:36,014 --> 01:35:38,950
- Sorry. Very sorry.
- There is the bus stop.

1131
01:35:44,081 --> 01:35:45,805
- Bye.
- Wait, don't go!

1132
01:35:48,948 --> 01:35:51,949
Would you be willing to
hang out with me for a while?

1133
01:35:54,071 --> 01:35:56,625
- You want to hang out with me?
- Yes.

1134
01:36:01,722 --> 01:36:04,625
- Then I have to ask you...
- What?

1135
01:36:06,716 --> 01:36:08,659
What does "hang out" mean?

1136
01:36:09,534 --> 01:36:11,061
It means...

1137
01:36:13,376 --> 01:36:14,489
visit.

1138
01:36:17,570 --> 01:36:18,617
Okay.

1139
01:37:11,516 --> 01:37:13,524
I've never seen your place.

1140
01:37:17,246 --> 01:37:18,653
Very perfect.

1141
01:37:25,314 --> 01:37:27,257
I'm gonna cook for you.

1142
01:37:29,092 --> 01:37:30,205
Please.

1143
01:37:36,231 --> 01:37:39,266
I am glad to visit with you.

1144
01:37:45,195 --> 01:37:47,018
If I just left the job...

1145
01:37:48,749 --> 01:37:50,692
and never spoke with you...

1146
01:37:52,783 --> 01:37:54,474
it would have been...

1147
01:37:57,810 --> 01:37:58,857
sin.

1148
01:38:01,203 --> 01:38:02,666
You understand?

1149
01:38:11,672 --> 01:38:12,720
Yeah.

1150
01:38:32,001 --> 01:38:36,760
My hand is the only sane part of my body.
Every other part wants to jump off a cliff.

1151
01:38:39,270 --> 01:38:42,654
That's it for now.
I already broke my record for smooth.

1152
01:38:42,919 --> 01:38:46,401
- I don't understand.
- It's me. I'm not making any sense.

1153
01:38:46,473 --> 01:38:48,262
But I can get you fed.

1154
01:39:00,719 --> 01:39:02,695
- You want a drink?
- No.

1155
01:39:07,442 --> 01:39:10,029
Wait. I don't think you should, either.

1156
01:39:10,388 --> 01:39:12,112
Then, excuse me, because...

1157
01:39:12,181 --> 01:39:14,638
if I had the equipment,
I think I'd inject the vodka.

1158
01:39:14,710 --> 01:39:18,006
I just think it is important
we are each clear-headed.

1159
01:39:31,806 --> 01:39:33,268
It's very good.

1160
01:39:34,143 --> 01:39:36,249
You didn't ask why.

1161
01:39:37,377 --> 01:39:39,265
Keep things real, right?

1162
01:39:40,483 --> 01:39:42,688
I wouldn't have put it so well.

1163
01:39:48,134 --> 01:39:50,306
Let's get this going here.

1164
01:40:17,460 --> 01:40:18,737
Beautiful.

1165
01:40:21,334 --> 01:40:24,816
So, tell me again
why I can't call him on his cell again?

1166
01:40:24,887 --> 01:40:27,027
Besides that he turned it off?

1167
01:40:28,410 --> 01:40:32,121
- Yeah.
- Forty messages start to look needy.

1168
01:40:49,380 --> 01:40:53,124
- Mother, you're enjoying this.
- No.

1169
01:40:55,174 --> 01:40:57,084
Not in the way you think.

1170
01:40:57,864 --> 01:41:01,378
You are enjoying it? Jesus, Mother.

1171
01:41:01,801 --> 01:41:05,447
I am enjoying actually being of use
to my daughter.

1172
01:41:05,516 --> 01:41:09,609
I'm enjoying the fact that I really
know how to advise you...

1173
01:41:09,805 --> 01:41:13,899
and the miracle
that you are so deeply disoriented...

1174
01:41:13,967 --> 01:41:16,488
that you are gobbling up everything I say.

1175
01:41:24,084 --> 01:41:25,132
What?

1176
01:41:27,317 --> 01:41:30,417
There's something I want to say to you
about you and me.

1177
01:41:31,288 --> 01:41:33,744
- You don't have to.
- No, I want to.

1178
01:41:34,969 --> 01:41:36,497
- Okay?
- Thank you.

1179
01:41:38,555 --> 01:41:41,852
You were an alcoholic
and wildly promiscuous woman...

1180
01:41:41,949 --> 01:41:45,398
during my formative years,
so I'm in this fix because of you.

1181
01:41:45,791 --> 01:41:47,352
It is your fault.

1182
01:41:48,416 --> 01:41:51,232
I just needed that moment for us
to build on.

1183
01:41:56,868 --> 01:41:58,844
You have a solid point, dear.

1184
01:41:58,916 --> 01:42:02,813
But right now, the lessons of my life
are coming in handy for you.

1185
01:42:19,726 --> 01:42:22,182
That's it. That's it for you.

1186
01:42:26,770 --> 01:42:30,067
I keep thinking I should tell you
what happened to me tonight.

1187
01:42:34,197 --> 01:42:36,402
But I don't want to spoil this.

1188
01:42:43,162 --> 01:42:46,360
I will remember every taste forever.

1189
01:42:48,412 --> 01:42:50,421
I'm very glad you liked it.

1190
01:42:51,166 --> 01:42:53,272
It's something, watching you.

1191
01:42:55,488 --> 01:42:58,456
If it's anything at your end,
imagine over here.

1192
01:42:59,234 --> 01:43:03,010
Scratch that. The last thing you want to hear
is somebody going off on your looks.

1193
01:43:03,075 --> 01:43:05,597
Don't be crazy. Tell me every detail.

1194
01:43:09,030 --> 01:43:10,438
Okay, I will.

1195
01:43:13,320 --> 01:43:17,381
They should name a gender after you.
Looking at you doesn't do it.

1196
01:43:17,803 --> 01:43:20,619
Staring is the only way
that makes any sense.

1197
01:43:21,484 --> 01:43:24,300
And trying not to blink,
so you don't miss anything.

1198
01:43:28,976 --> 01:43:31,366
And all of that, and you're you.

1199
01:43:32,466 --> 01:43:33,514
I mean...

1200
01:43:35,091 --> 01:43:37,613
Look, forgive me.

1201
01:43:38,260 --> 01:43:41,426
It's just you are drop-dead, crazy gorgeous.

1202
01:43:43,190 --> 01:43:46,191
So much so that I'm actually considering
looking at you again...

1203
01:43:46,264 --> 01:43:48,087
before we finish up here.

1204
01:43:51,163 --> 01:43:53,433
Soon, please.

1205
01:44:27,723 --> 01:44:29,928
- I can't. We can't.
- I know.

1206
01:44:29,996 --> 01:44:34,057
We can't do anything that brings us
any kind of satisfaction or release.

1207
01:44:34,863 --> 01:44:37,198
But I'm still having a great time.

1208
01:44:40,561 --> 01:44:44,360
<i>My mother has often referred
to that evening at the restaurant...</i>

1209
01:44:44,436 --> 01:44:46,576
<i>as the conversation of her life.</i>

1210
01:44:47,926 --> 01:44:50,261
Ever since that night at the beach...

1211
01:44:51,383 --> 01:44:54,515
if I knew you were in a room,
I just wouldn't go in there.

1212
01:44:56,505 --> 01:44:59,540
When I hear you coming, I leave.

1213
01:45:02,428 --> 01:45:05,365
That's why we haven't
seen each other a lot lately.

1214
01:45:07,006 --> 01:45:09,528
Why is everything so damn confusing?

1215
01:45:17,092 --> 01:45:19,362
Is your mind racing, too?

1216
01:45:19,429 --> 01:45:21,339
I'd say my mind has evaporated.

1217
01:45:22,919 --> 01:45:24,512
Feels pretty good.

1218
01:45:25,575 --> 01:45:26,885
Like happy?

1219
01:45:28,713 --> 01:45:30,121
Like happy.

1220
01:45:32,843 --> 01:45:34,753
You think that will last?

1221
01:45:39,630 --> 01:45:42,796
- I was just kidding around.
- I understand what you mean.

1222
01:45:42,864 --> 01:45:45,069
I don't understand what I mean.

1223
01:45:48,754 --> 01:45:50,577
That it's getting late.

1224
01:45:55,189 --> 01:45:56,914
The responsibilities...

1225
01:45:58,456 --> 01:46:00,366
have entered your brain.

1226
01:46:02,777 --> 01:46:04,665
Don't hide that from me.

1227
01:46:10,236 --> 01:46:12,342
- Please.
- Yeah.

1228
01:46:12,990 --> 01:46:14,878
Thank you. You're right.

1229
01:46:16,576 --> 01:46:19,065
I won't. You're great.

1230
01:46:20,738 --> 01:46:22,332
You're great, too.

1231
01:46:26,853 --> 01:46:28,130
No.

1232
01:46:34,537 --> 01:46:38,597
There are some mistakes you cannot risk
when you have children.

1233
01:46:43,212 --> 01:46:44,358
Please.

1234
01:46:45,294 --> 01:46:48,262
- Are you ready to go?
- No! I'm not.

1235
01:46:49,135 --> 01:46:51,820
Stay put for a sec. Stay there.

1236
01:46:55,442 --> 01:46:58,859
Once our feet touch that floor,
I'm gonna get too many brain cells back.

1237
01:46:58,932 --> 01:47:00,842
Don't be in such a hurry.

1238
01:47:04,247 --> 01:47:07,597
That floor, it's going to eat us alive.

1239
01:47:45,258 --> 01:47:47,626
- I love you.
- What?

1240
01:47:49,196 --> 01:47:50,790
'Cause I've been...

1241
01:48:08,181 --> 01:48:11,531
Oh, God, it's him.
He's gotta tell me everything.

1242
01:48:12,856 --> 01:48:14,864
- No.
- Oh, yes.

1243
01:48:14,937 --> 01:48:16,148
No, wait.

1244
01:48:18,522 --> 01:48:20,695
Do you know that right now...

1245
01:48:21,723 --> 01:48:23,961
you are your own worst enemy?

1246
01:48:24,573 --> 01:48:28,120
That you can't trust
one thought in your brain?

1247
01:48:40,068 --> 01:48:41,825
Then trust me...

1248
01:48:42,534 --> 01:48:46,016
and only allow yourself
to say one thing to him.

1249
01:48:46,728 --> 01:48:48,005
One thing.

1250
01:48:48,872 --> 01:48:50,881
"I am so glad you're back."

1251
01:48:51,786 --> 01:48:53,161
- What?
- Yes.

1252
01:48:54,155 --> 01:48:56,840
But I have to know whether he touched her.

1253
01:48:57,612 --> 01:49:00,745
And where he touched her,
and how he touched her...

1254
01:49:00,974 --> 01:49:04,359
and how he felt afterwards,
whether they held hands...

1255
01:49:04,432 --> 01:49:05,993
when they left.

1256
01:49:09,266 --> 01:49:12,913
Just those words, if you want
to have a prayer of coming out of this.

1257
01:49:16,790 --> 01:49:18,831
- So now I...
- Go to him.

1258
01:49:19,799 --> 01:49:22,932
- Jesus, do I need a little makeup?
- You need a hose.

1259
01:49:23,994 --> 01:49:27,541
But you don't have the time.
It's fine that you look like that.

1260
01:49:27,611 --> 01:49:30,580
It's genuine. You can use genuine.

1261
01:49:32,605 --> 01:49:34,614
- Thank you, Mom.
- Oh, honey.

1262
01:49:37,472 --> 01:49:41,849
It's not the worst thing in the world
to find out that you love your husband.

1263
01:49:53,383 --> 01:49:55,042
It's late, Deborah.

1264
01:49:58,410 --> 01:50:00,582
I just wanted to say...

1265
01:50:07,278 --> 01:50:10,727
I can't sleep upstairs with you.
I just can't for now.

1266
01:50:15,218 --> 01:50:17,324
I'm just so glad you're back.

1267
01:50:18,676 --> 01:50:21,612
- I am.
- Yeah, okay.

1268
01:50:26,807 --> 01:50:27,823
Mom?

1269
01:50:54,596 --> 01:50:56,386
I'm done tonight, Deb.

1270
01:50:58,342 --> 01:51:01,027
I don't think we can jam anything else in.

1271
01:51:01,480 --> 01:51:02,888
It's me, Dad.

1272
01:51:06,603 --> 01:51:08,294
What's wrong, honey?

1273
01:51:09,164 --> 01:51:12,908
I just wanted to check
that you were back and okay.

1274
01:51:14,895 --> 01:51:16,106
I'm okay.

1275
01:51:20,497 --> 01:51:21,708
Because?

1276
01:51:27,573 --> 01:51:32,277
Mom was crying for six hours straight,
and Grandma was in with her...

1277
01:51:32,342 --> 01:51:35,213
all that time, mostly saying, "He'll be back."

1278
01:51:36,056 --> 01:51:38,873
I just hate that you had that kind of night.

1279
01:51:44,221 --> 01:51:48,052
It's good for me to worry about
something that really matters...

1280
01:51:49,759 --> 01:51:53,143
instead of the stupid stuff
that's usually on my mind.

1281
01:51:53,217 --> 01:51:54,265
Like?

1282
01:51:57,314 --> 01:51:58,776
Surviving?

1283
01:52:01,861 --> 01:52:03,007
What?

1284
01:52:04,839 --> 01:52:06,978
How did you come up with this?

1285
01:52:07,047 --> 01:52:09,951
You are fantastic, Bernie. I love you.

1286
01:52:10,921 --> 01:52:13,606
- I love you.
- I know.

1287
01:52:14,602 --> 01:52:17,321
I mean, not about me being fantastic.
But just...

1288
01:52:19,725 --> 01:52:23,207
- Sleep well.
- Wait. What?

1289
01:52:31,827 --> 01:52:33,137
Sweetheart.

1290
01:52:35,669 --> 01:52:36,847
Me, too.

1291
01:52:49,756 --> 01:52:51,033
Sing it for Grandma.

1292
01:53:14,504 --> 01:53:17,986
Hey, Mom. Is it okay
if we don't leave right away, please?

1293
01:53:18,057 --> 01:53:19,040
No.

1294
01:53:20,490 --> 01:53:22,084
Just let me explain, please.

1295
01:53:22,155 --> 01:53:23,978
No. We must say goodbye.

1296
01:53:24,044 --> 01:53:27,242
Bernice is going to let me use her computer.
This is for school.

1297
01:53:27,309 --> 01:53:30,857
- For school. Just listen to me.
- I don't work here anymore.

1298
01:53:35,185 --> 01:53:37,575
No, that's not fair.

1299
01:53:38,739 --> 01:53:41,009
You can't do this to me.

1300
01:53:52,538 --> 01:53:55,354
- Do I have to get out?
- No, Georgie. Stay.

1301
01:54:03,038 --> 01:54:05,406
I think you are a wonderful boy.

1302
01:54:06,048 --> 01:54:08,154
Be good, like you are.

1303
01:54:08,225 --> 01:54:10,048
Thanks. Thanks a lot.

1304
01:54:11,587 --> 01:54:14,370
- I can't believe you didn't get out.
- Flor said.

1305
01:54:16,133 --> 01:54:18,174
I don't want to get you wet.

1306
01:54:19,047 --> 01:54:21,415
- Get me wet.
- Thanks.

1307
01:54:22,952 --> 01:54:26,783
- You are a trip. You are.
- Thank you.

1308
01:54:29,067 --> 01:54:30,628
You are a beauty.

1309
01:54:35,183 --> 01:54:36,460
Come on.

1310
01:54:37,648 --> 01:54:40,518
Last chance to have some of you
rub off on me.

1311
01:54:42,065 --> 01:54:45,744
Listen, I'm sorry that you're sad,
but this could have been so much worse.

1312
01:54:47,252 --> 01:54:49,904
Why don't you run upstairs
and say goodbye to Deborah?

1313
01:54:49,973 --> 01:54:51,283
I'm coming.

1314
01:54:51,350 --> 01:54:53,261
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.

1315
01:55:01,403 --> 01:55:03,411
I live my life for myself.

1316
01:55:04,797 --> 01:55:07,286
You live your life for your daughter.

1317
01:55:08,158 --> 01:55:09,719
None of it works.

1318
01:55:13,537 --> 01:55:15,130
Thank you, Evelyn.

1319
01:55:20,996 --> 01:55:23,233
- We're leaving for good.
- It's okay.

1320
01:55:23,301 --> 01:55:26,238
- We're not coming back!
- It's okay.

1321
01:55:26,310 --> 01:55:29,825
We're still gonna see each other at school.
Come on.

1322
01:55:29,896 --> 01:55:32,002
I'm gonna keep my eye on you.

1323
01:55:32,073 --> 01:55:34,213
Come on. No, no.

1324
01:55:34,282 --> 01:55:36,967
I got some great things for you.
Want a computer?

1325
01:56:02,936 --> 01:56:04,912
I was waiting out here.

1326
01:56:08,250 --> 01:56:10,356
Can't give you guys a lift, huh?

1327
01:56:22,242 --> 01:56:24,512
God bless the guy who gets you.

1328
01:56:36,296 --> 01:56:38,981
- Let her keep them. Party favors.
- No.

1329
01:56:51,823 --> 01:56:53,766
Goodbye, Mr. Clasky.

1330
01:56:53,841 --> 01:56:57,071
I'm very sorry we won't be seeing
each other as frequently.

1331
01:57:03,637 --> 01:57:04,586
Yes.

1332
01:57:37,541 --> 01:57:40,292
Can I sleep at the Claskys'
when I stay late at school?

1333
01:57:40,358 --> 01:57:42,148
<i>Shortly after we left...</i>

1334
01:57:42,216 --> 01:57:45,513
<i>my mother told me of another decision
she had reached.</i>

1335
01:57:46,442 --> 01:57:49,160
<i>I would no longer go to the private school.</i>

1336
01:57:49,707 --> 01:57:50,918
No!

1337
01:57:52,204 --> 01:57:54,213
You can't do that to me!

1338
01:57:59,215 --> 01:58:01,005
You ruined everything.

1339
01:58:04,978 --> 01:58:08,362
This ruins my life! You've ruined everything!

1340
01:58:08,788 --> 01:58:10,961
I will never forgive you.

1341
01:58:12,278 --> 01:58:15,695
No, it'll never be all right. You're wrong.

1342
01:58:15,768 --> 01:58:18,769
This is exactly what I was worried about.

1343
01:58:19,930 --> 01:58:22,615
I will never be able to forgive you!

1344
01:58:26,877 --> 01:58:30,970
I have a scholarship!
And nobody gives this up!

1345
01:58:33,088 --> 01:58:36,984
<i>The 1.3 miles from the Clasky house
to our bus stop...</i>

1346
01:58:37,058 --> 01:58:39,426
<i>was the longest walk I'll ever know.</i>

1347
01:58:41,348 --> 01:58:43,651
<i>I had publicly scorned my mother.</i>

1348
01:58:46,118 --> 01:58:48,224
<i>And yet she had not reacted.</i>

1349
01:58:53,770 --> 01:58:56,160
<i>What did spark our climactic moment...</i>

1350
01:58:56,235 --> 01:58:58,854
<i>was my use of a common American phrase.</i>

1351
01:58:59,980 --> 01:59:02,283
Not right now. I need some space.

1352
01:59:04,751 --> 01:59:06,759
Not a space between us.

1353
01:59:12,370 --> 01:59:15,405
<i>In the midst of confrontation,
she found clarity.</i>

1354
01:59:31,323 --> 01:59:33,976
<i>She expressed regret
that she had to ask me...</i>

1355
01:59:34,045 --> 01:59:37,625
<i>to deal with the basic question of my life
at such a young age.</i>

1356
01:59:41,824 --> 01:59:43,800
<i>And then she asked it.</i>

1357
01:59:48,932 --> 01:59:51,105
<i>"Is what you want for yourself...</i>

1358
01:59:57,064 --> 01:59:59,334
<i>"to become someone very different...</i>

1359
02:00:02,314 --> 02:00:03,591
<i>"than me?"</i>

1360
02:00:25,590 --> 02:00:27,216
<i>I have been overwhelmed...</i>

1361
02:00:27,286 --> 02:00:30,157
<i>by your encouragement
to apply to your university...</i>

1362
02:00:30,360 --> 02:00:33,427
<i>and your list of scholarships
available to me.</i>

1363
02:00:33,945 --> 02:00:36,663
<i>Though, as I hope this essay shows...</i>

1364
02:00:37,468 --> 02:00:40,568
<i>your acceptance, while it would thrill me...</i>

1365
02:00:41,470 --> 02:00:43,259
<i>will not define me.</i>

1366
02:00:45,664 --> 02:00:48,218
<i>My identity rests firmly...</i>

1367
02:00:48,833 --> 02:00:51,201
<i>and happily on one fact:</i>

1368
02:00:52,643 --> 02:00:54,749
<i>I am my mother's daughter.</i>

1369
02:01:08,682 --> 02:01:11,913
<i>Thank you. Cristina Moreno.</i>